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Old 19th May 2009, 20:42   #46
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LOL. Some of the stuff here is so childish.
Rest is too bookish.

Keep 'em coming, guys!!

What fun!!
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Old 19th May 2009, 20:48   #47
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DONT TELL ME YOU WERE REALLY SERIOUS, what you mentioned above??????!!!!!
Yup very serious. You think any woman would want to listen to a speech? Guys are supposed to be the ones doing the listening.
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Old 19th May 2009, 22:01   #48
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got all this on google.
you find all this on google kicking myself for not login into google early!

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Yup very serious. You think any woman would want to listen to a speech? Guys are supposed to be the ones doing the listening.
you know me, i aint a guru like you when it comes to women

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Old 19th May 2009, 22:16   #49
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you know me, i aint a guru like you when it comes to women
Viddy must be saying to himself : "Aaamsteerrrddaaammmm, here I come " .

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alright. I am guessing all the married guys have kept quiet . because all i hear is silly courtship talk.


If you want to speak your mind, get married. There would be a lot more things in life to worry about than pleasing her verbally.

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A lot of women love hearing from their others friends how lucky she is. This in turn only makes her love you more.
This is a very important point. and it doesn't come from smooth talking.
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Old 20th May 2009, 01:57   #51
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Though I do not claim to be an expert of any kind, I have observed certain things about women, and needless to say, put some to good use.

1. Always say they look great. Not good. Great. Always.
2. If they have shopped, the dress bought is something amazing that you have never seen before (even though you may have seen every third woman sport that outfit).
3. If the woman in question has gone for a haircut, it has to be the best haircut that you have seen on her till date. Which means that she gets progressively better haircuts/styles.
4. Do not, repeat DO NOT, offer a solution to problems, unless specifically asked for one. All you have to do is listen, or atleast pretend to the best of your ability that nothing interests you more than the problem being narrated. And therefore do not use your tongue. Except at certain times of the day

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Now when I recollect all the fights which I have with my fiancee, and I look at the points mentioned by you, I realise that all those fights could have been avoided if you had puked out all this gyan out long time ago.

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This thread is going to take away a lot of my agonies.
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Old 20th May 2009, 10:26   #52
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alright. I am guessing all the married guys have kept quiet . because all i hear is silly courtship talk.

What makes you think so ? In fact it seems that guys making serious good points are married arindambasu13 , Jaggu and Vid for example ( my guess I do not know them personally)

BTW
arindambasu13 are you in HR by any chance ?
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Vidyuth and married!!!
wow this is news even to him
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Viddy boi
When did u get married ?

EDIT: Just saw amit's post
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dang you spoiled my cover amitk26

as far as Vid is concerned, oh yeah he is married alright! epitome of married people! who are married to their cars, than to female of the species he he he

and running for cover.
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I tend to speak my mind. Sometimes, it works ; most often it doesnt. Still, I'm happy I got it off my chest.

YMMV.
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This is thread is full of Gyan!

I think a good sense of humor is a must to impress a woman.

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Viddy boi
When did u get married ?

EDIT: Just saw amit's post
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Vidyuth and married!!!
wow this is news even to him
Guys I wrote disclaimer I do not know him personally so that was just a guess but the gyan very much looked like from a married guy or someone in serious relationship ( equivalent to being married)
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ahhhhh lesson 3: Sense of humor! (safari_lover overtook me) Use it smartly and you can get out of very difficult situations, with some major brownie points

Even some situations where you are absolutely frustrated and are about to confront, pause for a sec, take a deep breath, use your brains like gals do, and then confront with humor.

EDIT: ohey you guys can forget lesson 1 in this thread and start speaking/posting also lol

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say a girl is beautiful than just good looking.
get to know her friends and be good to them so that they keep reminding her what a great guy you are!!
be as humble as you can so that she goes"how shweet....."
enquire about her parents and siblings occasionally
tell her that your softest point in life is her!!
and never talk about any other girls more than two sentences at one go!! they dont like it!!
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