Re: Individual OTRs Kills team spirit Couldn't resist posting .
A lot of discussion is going on whether the "O" team were responsible for whatever happenned or not.
I am a novice here and dropped out of Mcube at the last moment due to urgent personal issues and do not know what actually happenned. Based on what I read on tbhp this morning, I have certain points to make.
I would urge everyone to ponder over few things before making all the comments here:
1. Firstly, where does all this bashing lead to!! Is the idea here to provide the MCube team and others to learn from mistakes OR to make them disheartened and discourage fellow jeepers throughout the country from organising further such events. Being 4X4 lovers, do we want people to come forward and have many more such events in all parts of the country or not. Can't we simply stick to what we call constructive feedback.
2. Doubting intention of the organisers: Mistakes happen with all of us, I would be genuinely concerned if it was so on part of the organisers. If it was so, please point it out directly with facts. To me, regular off roaders in different parts of the country organise such events to show their terrain, vehicles, promote off roading, catch up and learn offline with people they have only met in cyber space, get newbies like me to know about it better. Should we bash them or help them so that they do better next time!! it's the spirit of the sport and intention that should matter most
3. Was this a concert or an event with a profit motive and are the organisers professional event managers: We should differentiate between a rock concert or cricket match gone bad and a event like this. Okay we paid in both cases. But this wasn't a profit making event, Charges were minimal. Shouldn't we not consider the effort the O teams all over the country take in making it a success. Just imagine the time,effort and money they put in to ensure a good weekend for all of us. They have their own jobs to do for a living as well. They are not professional event managers who do this for a living. They may not have missed out on getting certain permissions or forseeing some events that finally happenned. Isn't it a learning process and is anything perfect!!
Is it morally right on our part! RTI, forest minister,press, media, FIR, law, team failed, who is to balme, lawyer know legal blah blah......Friends if one is a lawyer, another is a Manager/ businessman/bureaucrat/politician/ mafia/multi millionare etc etc in real life. Over here can't we just stick to being common Indians who share a legal passion for 4X4's. We love cars and respect the consititution and people of India. We unknowingly committed a mistake and paid up the required fine and vowed not to repeat. PERIOD
4. Trust and Bonhomie among tbhpians: How many times have fellow bhpians helped each others with checking out vehicles in other cities, sourcing spares, mechanics, going out for PDIs. they have taken out precious time to help a stranger just because he loves cars. The Moderator insists on putting information on threads rather then PM so that we share whatever we know with everyone.
Two personal experiences I would like to quote
I had saved since i started working in 2008 and was looking for an W124. A well known bhpian helped me source a w124 finally after 2 years of search. i had given up after searching over 50 cars and PM'ed him in depression though he didn't know me. He stopped me from buying lemeons and helped me for a long time giving his feedback on each car I found. He finally helped me find a car through his contacts and also helped me with a mechanic and all spare parts. The car lover in me would have died if I had got a lemon or had he not helped me throughout.
I donot have a 4X4 as of now and don"t have enough resources to get one anytime soon. Still the "O" members invite me each time and ensure I get seat in a jeep to enjoy the event ( their own jeeps do not participate). I haven't ever met them except the events in my 2 years in Mumbai.
So suppose the spare part dealer or the mechanic recommended fleeces me with a few bucks or this time i could not get a seat at Mcube for some reasons. So what am I supposed to do, Shout and take digs at the event at the people who helped me earlier but could not do this time! Was it a help in good faith or a business deal where I have a right to DEMAND!! I start a thread here and bash them publicly again. Okay they would be finally cleared of the blame if it was not there but would that person not think : " Why the hell did I help this unknown boy spending my own time and money and what did I gain.. bhalai ka zamana nahi raha!!"
Will people assist anyone again here in future! Will not people not be strongly discouraged to hold such events in future!
If Sidhu Dhaba gave bsour jalebi during tbhp meet and we bash a fellow member who had organised on the thread who will have the courage to organise the next meet!
Where does this lead to. An important point in personal and professional life is to " praise in public and reprimand in private". Words once said cannot be taken back, shouldn't we be a little more careful before we speak.
Please ask yourself just one question: Do we want more events like this everywhere or not!
I certainly do and will praise the "O" team for their efforts and intentions and feel sorry for them whatever unfortunate happenned. Also point out what was really good at the event and how it was significantly better than last year.
I go to a car event with an expectation to learn and have a good time. I leave my ego and baggage at my office because I am here to have a good time, not to show off or act pricey because I have the knowledge and moolah to possess a real cool customised vehicle and I paid up and something went wrong. Such people remind me of numerous inviduals who shout at waiters in 5 stars or attendants in AC bogeys because they did not get the respect they "believe" the command
I know they are reasonable and responsible bunch of people who have deep passion for this sport and would buck them up/give constructive feedback/assist to ensure that they come back with a better event next time.
I don't know anyone else who invite jeepless people like me with so much respect to such events. I really doubt if a professional event manager would ever let me in.
One question to all participants:" Did you ask the O team about how much fine they paid and offered to chip in for that if it was a substantially large amount and said "chalta hai yaar, take it easy,sab kuch pe control nahi ho sakta apna, hota rehta hai yeh sab life mein, next year better karengey" rather than adding to their woes. Just imagine what they would have been going through while dealing with the forest officials
I know my post is haphazard and isn't exactly concise. Couldn't plan writing it like a business report.
Thanks to everyone who read through
Last edited by vikramvicky1984 : 18th July 2012 at 13:09.
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