Thank you all for you valuable inputs, here is a quick and final update on my Taigun saga.
Update : 11/02/2023:
So i finally got the call on 10/02 that the car's insurance has been approved and i could take the vehicle, I called the service center VW Alandur, and they called me the next day and let me know that i could pick up the vehicle.
Went around 3pm in the afternoon, and lo and behold there she was just like the day that i first took her out of the showroom, I had a friend with me for an extra pair of eyes, we went around and up and down the car, the service center had done a pretty good work of paint matching, there were no blemishes and we couldn't spot the difference between the repainted parts and the original parts. They even stuck back the accessory window shade for the doors, (i was worried that i would have to get all 4 replaced.)
On the day the car was dropped off the service Manager Mr. Selvakumar did tell me that they would get the job done as per VW's standards and am very happy to say that they in-fact did exactly that.
Other than a small nick on the rear wheel, which I doubt anything could have been done there was no marks. ( The rear wheel ding now serves as a reminder).
Also on the polishing part as well, I decided to go ahead and get it done, as god forbid the car turned out looking like 2 different shades of grey.
I also wanted the car's 2nd service to be done but the delay in getting updates prompted me to take the car on 11/02 drive it around so see how things were and return it back on 13/02 for the second service.
During the time at the workshop the android auto was updated and I had also raised issue with the door beading and the A/C for which the service manager did inform me of a S/W update which was done, am yet to test it out fully in the city.
Costs:
Now on the financial front am happy to say that fellow bhpians inputs did really help put my mind at ease.
Total bill amount: 1,44,595
Insurance cover: 1,37,615
My expense: 6,980
Now a breakdown of the 6980 is as below:
Surface Refinement (Polishing i guess): 5,698.22
Consumable Charges : 1,045.78
So technically my out of pocket expense was only 1045, had i not opted for the polishing, but considering the damage, this was a bargain.
P.S After going through the bill also realized that whatever happens never let the headlamps be damaged, its cheaper to have 2 door's (9613 per door) replaced rather than the headlamps (Rs.27,065)
Conclusion :
Really happy that we have gotten out from the crash unharmed, and the legal issues have been resolved. Also thankful that the crash didn't dent my pockets.
Thanks to all the Team bhp member's for your valuable inputs.
Special thanks to the VW Alandur service center and also the bodyshop manager Mr.Selvakumar and the body shop technician Raja Sekar for giving me back the Taigun like brand new.
Here was some after pics: