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Originally Posted by hellstar In this case , had i been in your shoes i would not have gotten out from the car given the fact that you had a lady inside and would have promptly speed off to the nearest police station after noting down the innovas reg number. given the fact that you car was driveable after the accident.
It is also important toe move away from the accident spot as soon as spossible as sooner or later the locals will start getting the upper hand and may force you to do something you might regret later.
Driving in the night is less stressful for me than driving at day due to the reduces desity of traffic but be aware that the density of antisocials increase after night fall and you need to know when , where and what you need to steer clear off. |
+1 to all these points. I prefer to drive in the night because of the lesser traffic. Even I had a hairline escape near Salem [at 8 PM] during my last trip to Bangalore from Kerala. I had an Omni in front of me and I was driving at 120 reaching them from behind. This guy was in the middle of the road with no gaps on either side to overtake. While I was nearing to overtake, I flashed my lights and this guy moved to the left. I held high beam while overtaking and after I overtook half, he decided to overtake a rick at the front !! I slammed my brakes and hit 60 from 120 in like 2-3 seconds [I have ABS in my car -- so I dont mind slamming my brakes]. And kept honking. I have loud horns and this made the guy move to left again! I was so furious and I went to that guy, gave an earful and kept driving. The guy wanted to abuse back, but i moved on !
This is exactly what you need to do -- just keep moving on without stopping ! And yes, you take a call whether you want to abuse as well -- I was alone and hence I did that. If I had a lady with me, I would not have bothered to do that as well -- we need to be careful when we have lady passengers with us and the best option is to move on.
I have seen almost everyone asking the person to go to the nearest police station -- How would you find that in the night -- And asking for directions in the night with locals might prove another problem - you never know !
In Kerala, as far as I know, people are using mobile technology to pass info to track vehicles who keep moving on! So there are numerous instances where vehicles are blocked 5-10 kms later and people beaten up for no fault of theirs. And yes, the only fault those people or you and I have is that "We happened to be born in a good family and was brought up with good culture & sympathy and have no Goon background!! "
Some tips to avoid such accidents while overtaking [which I usually do]:
[These points work in the night well]
1. Flash lights couple of times as you approach and honk if necessary
2. Have powerful upgraded lights [100W really help]
3. Have powerful & loud horns
4. If the guy in the front doesn't budge, stay right behind the guy inline with the car in the front and keep the lights in high beam and drive for some distance [Mostly the guys who will not move are the cab wallahs and they will not be able to hold on to this for long] - They will let you pass.
4. Move your car slightly to the right [still being behind the car], keep your right headlight in high beam out so that the light beam falls on the OVRM and reflects to the drivers face.
5. If the guy still doesn't move, start honking -- initially press it in a gap to give a sign to move away, and later keep pressing in - this usually works as these guys keep their windows rolled down !
6. Over take only if you have enough space -- wait till you have enough space so that there is room for correction even if the other guy makes a mistake.
7. keep flashing your lights couple of time while you overtake or honk [I honk in day light while overtaking and flash my lights in the night] to give a signal that you are overtaking.
8. While overtaking, make sure you have high level of concentration on the movements of the car in front of you -- Also try and see whats in front of these guys -- if there is another vehicle in front of them and if its slow moving, they usually try to overtake the vehicle at the same time you are overtaking -- this situation can get very nasty.
9. While overtaking trucks / trailers, wait for their hand signal / indicator signal to overtake -- 90% of the times they give a signal !
I am sure this would have made your cousin learn some lessons -- I am all the more happy that your family is safe [except for some physical abuse he got which is minor to be considered] and they also didn't end up hurting any lives ! Ask them to forget this incident [it will take some time] and enjoy their road trips -- they may want to travel in day light -- as per their preference]. Bu I don't know how different a similar incident in day light is going to be from night ! the chances of people gathering in the day is much more than that in the night!
Disclaimer: Some of you might not like some points mentioned here which is not the best way to drive. I choose to follow these points even going forth, because for me, my passengers' and my safety is the prime concern and not the comfort of the inconsiderate drivers on the road ! except for the situations mentioned above, I drive mostly on low beams [provided the guys coming opposite to me are also on low beam] on a two way road and usually don't resort to any honking in the night unless otherwise forced to.