Nut, can you give me an idea of what do you mean by "money is not an issue?'
India is a stange and eclectic holiday destination. It is poosible to stay in little huts on mountains for 500 rupees a night and it is possible to stay in some of the most beautiful hotels in the world (in India) for 17000-35000 rupees a night.
Is your preference a warm sunny climate (beaches, deserts etc) or a cool mountain area?
I see an indication for cool weather, BUT you mention beaches and humidity.
Pregant women emanate more body heat than usual and a warm humid beach may turn out to be hell for her.
Please give me an indication of max budgets. I believe that since she is pregnant, trekking and exploring of surrounding areas will be less and a quiet enjoyment of the hotel/resort and its surroundings will be more in order.
As far as your opitons
1. Goa is running at peak season time right now. Hotel prices are high and standard like Captain Lobos and Villa Goesa are booked till 2008. Standard run-of-the-mill Taj Holiday village type hotels may have rooms at about 7000-10000 a night.
There are many smaller hotels around the goan coastline.
2) I ahve been to kashmir about 12 times. Recent political strife has left the tourism industry fairly crippled. Go to Kashmir and roam around is not much of an agenda. You could obviously do the Srinagar houseboat thing and travel to Pahelgam and/or Gulmarg and even visit the elusive sonmarg and yusmarg. You could rent a jeep and travel upto Panjgam near the paki border. But I'm not sure if these adventures are fit for a mother to be.
3) I have never been to the Northeast but I head Shillong is beautiful. There are some excellent resorts in Uttaranchal and HP too.
You can read my thread in the team BHP meet section called "The Highest Team-BHP meet" (use the search function) or you can PM tsk, Khaadu and Gurkha (Gurkha is not here often though)
4. As i meantioned in my thread, offhand I can suggest atleast 5 very romantic and beautiful destinations. Please tell me your preference and approx budget.
I hope I was able to help you. After all I am the self-proclaimed travel-king of this forum