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Originally Posted by nanduchitnis A significant number of Team BHP members belong to the Armed Forces or may have retired.
I was wondering if a PANEL could be formed of Members who have served in the Army/Navy/Air Force who could motivate and guide Team Bhp members to consider a career in the Armed Forces for their sons/daughters. I retired having served in the Indian Navy for 22 years in 1998 and since I am sailing in the Merchant Navy.
After retiring and having settled down in Pune, I started to interact with Civilians much more than when I was in the Navy.
I realised that most people (read parents) had a poor knowledge of a career in the Armed Forces.
Most parents were majorly following the herd attitiude to groom their kids for a future in IIT/Engineering/Medicine//Archietecture/MBA even Hotel Management and some such careers. No offence meant to IITians and Engineers. When I asked many such friends why not consider the Armed Forces, I found that none had applied their minds to that option at all.
I told my firends "Look after the VIth Pay Commission the Pay and Perks are unbeatable to that offered by the Private Sector. The promotion prospects are garunteed upto he 4th level minimum, starting salaries are around Rs 30,000, perks are a dime a dozen. Pensions after 20 years service is a cool Rs 50 k and rising. Vacations 60 days per year, free Medicals and so on and so forth. Memberships to clubs, golf, and what not. The most important thing is QUALITY OF LIFE which the Armed Forces affords which cannot be matched in the Private Sector. "
I am glad to say that over the last 10 years I have motivated around 14 kids to join the Armed Forces and all are rocking!
My own kids are in the USA earning good salaries and living a good life.But they tell me "Dad we cannot dream of a life style that we lived as kids in the Indian Navy environment and the way you and Mom lived your life."
My son was a definative NDA prospective but Medicals shattered his dreams of joining the Armed Forces. Most regretfully he works for Bill Gates instead of the Indian Air Force.
Let's set the ball rolling. |
Commander, that is quite an inspiring thread that you have started in Team BHP forum; I, for one who is a bike enthusiast was very surprised indeed to get a defence related article tagged in a BHP forum; but given my keen interest for any defence related thing, I opened the thread and found it very informative, encouraging and motivating.
To introduce myself, I belong to the younger generation of BHPians hailing from New Delhi. Given @nanduchitni's keen desire to motivate youngsters in joining the armed forces, I could not resist from expressing my story on how I relate to the whole defence thing and why I found it motivating !!
The first thing that indeed motivated me in joing the armed forces was the movie 'Lakshya.' The movie was commercially what you may say is a 'flop' movie but went a long way in motivating guys like me (I relate to the easy going lazy types that Hrithik so effectively portrayed in the movie) in gathering more info on the armed forces and thus dreaming of a career in the armed forces. Given my low aptitude for science and maths, I ruled out Airforce and Navy at the first go. What helped me out was my adventurous nature and so when I was in my 11th, I joined the NCC (fyi it was JMI) under the guidance of one of our PE teachers, did quite a few camps all over India (including JMI CATC, NIC Delhi & NE and Army Camp in Meerut) and had a good opportunity of researching on weapons used by the Indian Armed forces (kudos to the Army Camp in Meerut). Indeed, my zeal and interest for that particular branch was so great that I achieved an A grade in my C certificate after 3 years in NCC.
So, next in line after 12th exams I thought of taking up NDA and discussed about it with my Batallion CO (Col. Singh) who was also effective in providing me logistical and other usefull defence related information. After letting my family know of my decision, my dad was highly unimpressed with my decision and just proclaimed that there is no nobility of serving in the force as the politiceans do all the bad work and the jawans & officers get a handful of bullets for all their pain and are commiserated by ways of a distinctive award and a few crocodile-eyed tears by our politiceans. But seeing my strong mental power and respecting the fact that I had made up my decision, he gave in and gave me the green signal.
My elder sister was indeed a great help in convincing all of the family that it will indeed be a great acheivemnt and prestige for us if I was admitted into the force as an officer. But the almighty had other wishes and earth shaterringly for me when the advertisements for NDA came out in the Emp. News I was older by four monthes than the minimum age prescribed (prescribed June while I was born in February). So there goes all my NDA dreams
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But I was not to be shaken and I started researching on Short Service Commission and thought of sitting for IMA (Dehradun) or OTA (Chennai) after completing my graduations.
However, dad came in this time more strongly and adviced me to take up a more professional course like Law or Engineering in place of a regular graduation like B.Com or B.A. so that if I could not crack the CDSE after my graduation then still I had other respectable career options open for me in the private sector. I thought that dad's word had wisdom in them laced with experience and straight away decided on Law as I always excelled in Arts subject and moreover, my low affinity for science & maths distanced me from engineering. However, I made this clear on Day 1 to my family that I will never be practising law after completion and am doing it only in pursuance of my defence related interest. For the information of the readers, I can sit for the JAG (Judge-Advocate General) exams after completion of my Law; I know it will be a bit further from the heat of action but still somthing is better than nothing. So here I am about to complete three years in law; two years remaining down the line after which I can sit for my defence exams. Hope, readers leave comments after reading my story with words of encouragement or practical advice (yes
Commander, you are the first in line from whom I am expecting this) which will go a long way in helping and motivating me.
Additionally, I am planning for a Ladakh biking trip this August-September on the offroader - Impulse and a trip from Delhi-Assam with the same bike in November. I am in the information collecting and research stage now and any practical advice relating to the trips will also b most welcome. I know it will be a great achievement for me if I would be able to pull off these biking trips as I am the lone adventure biker of the family. Waiting for your valuable inputs readers !!