Preamble: I usually consider myself not the really preachy type, although there's a self righteous streak in there somewhere. So this one is a little of the beaten track....
This Morning as the 61st anniversary of our indendence dawner upon us,
i also wished for Indepence from other idiots on the road.
The morning was decorated with a whole bunch of our fellow citizens ignoring traffic lights as is their merry wont as i cursed them all under my breath.
And So I figured,
the one thing thats common between all of us in this forum,
Is the amount that all of use Moan, groan & B!tch about traffic
and the standard of driving by all road users other than us.
We blame ( and justifiably so ) all the authorities, The RTO, the traffic Cops and the like
for the poor enforcement of the rules.
A Wise man said, ' Be the change you wish to see '.
And what better day than today, to advocate that advice.
So, after much preaching i shall get on with my proposal.
What will it require?
Ha, well nothing comes easy.
So it will require Sacrifice , Application, a Smile and above all Patience.
I would have said common sense, but thats too much too ask for these days
But, i'm a prracticl man, and thats too much to ask for all the time,
so my suggestion is that you engage in the excercise that i am about to propose
occasionally, till one gets used to it.
So, after much preaching i shall get on with my proposal.
What can we do change the state of traffic on an individual basis??
Well obviously, all follow the law and all that, but naturally we all do when we are driving and everone else is an idiot. So we really dont need to improve on ourselves.
So where to next. Improve the other guy I say.
here's what i actually do.
when i'm in a taxi or an Auto, I insist that the guy follows the traffic lights 7 doesnt go down one ways ( in the wrong direction) else i just say that i'll get off now thanks, or say i wont pay full fare.
When he objects, I tell him that , that what he's doing is endangering my safety, and i see no reason to pay him for that. If he has a dispute we can either follow the rules, Or , head to the cops to settle it.
That usually settles the situation.
I also insist that My driver follows the law. Stops at the light and Not 5 metres ahead of it etc etc.
I have a small delivery place.
My delivery rider has to wear a helmet & I ask them to follow the rules. ( Do they break them.. probably, But i enforce it when i'm riding with him, hoping that message will sink in.
Honestly, i've just decided to be a bit more patient .And i used to be a good role model for road rage!!
I know that there are times when were frustrated or in a blazing hurry or the like.
But what i'm suggesting that we try out stuff like this occasionally. the more you do it. i fell teh more people you will reach out to. Well thats my hope anyway.
Coz what i'm really saddened by, is the sight of a well dressed, well educated person, at a traffic light scouting to see it they can spot a cop, else its time to jump the light.
Have i broken lights - yeah i have. But honestly half by mistake and half just when the lights are changing. I really dont get the mentality of a person, who wants to break every light on his route.
what i'm hoping for is some of us can influence the way taxis & auto drive when we are in them. We cant influence them otherwise.. and who knows. it may just be the start.
To a more pleasant drive tomorrow.
Jai Hind!