update... thanks to all who replied...
However I ran the idea of a net/fibre glass/aluminium sheild over the spot by them. They didnt agree to it. The fibre glass and aluminium sheild was ruled out without a second thought. The net will spoil the show of the building was their comment.
I tried everything. speaking politely to all concerned. on the face they talk nicely. but then they actually do something else. The person from whose pot the stone fell is my next door neighbor. but he is refusing to accept it fell from his pot. He is saying it must have fallen from someone else's pot. When I showed him that I can see the mud of his pot on my car roof and on the side of his pot and on the parapet of the floor below his, he started hinting strongly that I must have damaged it outside and now I’m trying to blame him. (I made a mistake by not taking photos back then. I should have done it and also of the damage done to my glass.) I can’t park in his spot because he parks in front of his garage(another car in there) and no one can park in front of his garage besides him.
I’ve attached a drawing of the parking area. The left side (A) is how it is right now and the right side (B) is how I proposed it to be. The red block symbolizes my car. The black one is of my next door neighbor. The cars marked by the yellow block and green block are the other concerned people’s cars here. The other small blue blocks are the other cars. The large dark gray block symbolizes my building. The green arrow points to the space required to be kept so that bikes can pass through and go behind the building. The pink arrow points to the building entrance.
I can’t park too far away from the side of the building and close to the yellow car as then there is the danger of the bikes grazing past and scratching it. Even the person owning the yellow car is not good at driving and has dashed into the green car twice when parking. So besides the bikes scratching that’s another reason I don’t want to park so close to it. So then I proposed the way as shown on the right side diagram(B). I repeatedly told the committee members, but it fell on deaf ears. They would just try to reason with me saying that stones won’t fall every day and that these kinds of expenses are routine when you own a car (...what??). Just because you have trouble don’t give trouble to everyone.... (really absurd statement huh!!)
Finally when no one was willing to try out the option I was suggesting of an alternative parking spot as shown in (B). I went and parked there just to prove that it can be done without affecting anyone. But my mistake was in miscalculating the length of the green car. If all three cars were there, I would have known exactly where to put it. The owner of the green car was displaced and his car’s boot started protruding outwards towards the gate a bit. He created a hug ruckus and made me look like a trouble maker when all I was trying to do was reason with him about a possible alternative. He went to the extent of saying if I park my car there again he will dash into it and damage it and stop me from parking in the compound altogether. He is the building secretary and he claims to have the power to do it. He had the rest of the building oldies with him and they were all one against me. Now even though I told him with a little adjustment it can be managed he wasnt willing to listen. NOT AT ALL. He was fuming and just fell short of getting abusive and using filthy language.
A few days later I spoke politely to the owner of the yellow car and got him to park as per my proposed way. That day he did it saying he is not sure he will want to do it as a permanent solution. The next day he went back to how he used to park it before. Now I’m choosing the lesser of the two expenses and parking far away from the building side and closer to the yellow car as in the diagram (A) on the left. When I do this everybody tells me I have parked in the middle and I’m creating problems for the guys who need to take their motorbikes behind (not to mention the dirty looks!).
I feel this really unfair on their part. What would you think?
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