Man commits suicide due to inability to book a car

BenjiRoss · 22nd April 2009, 18:17

Looking at it from a larger perspective this should open our eyes as to how fragile the human emotion and heart can be. People can do extreme things for what seems trivial to others.
What I would like to highlight is that each day we may actually meet someone who is in such a phase in life and not even realise it! Just an encouraging word or actually realising that someone else is thinking extreme is so important.
It's easy to blame somebody who committed or tried to commit suicide. But ask any psychiatrist or a social worker/counsellor who has worked with these people and you will get a lot more insight into suicide. In a lot of cases it is amazing at how close friends and relatives totally missed cues and signs that the person was depressed/suicidal well before the actual event!
In conclusion, I believe the suicide was not caused simply by the 'Nano booking failure' but a set of situations (work, home, family others) and the media and police are just giving the superficial issue (the Nano) prominence and not looking at the deeper issue.
I hope TBHP members do not follow in the same line as the media and police.
As mentioned Suicide is never a way out at all. But a depressed person is in no state of mind to realise it.
Suicide Helplines, a simple conversation, a friendly walk, etc have stopped many suicides - but of course not all!

pranavt · 22nd April 2009, 19:58

Did the Nano tie the noose around this idiot's neck? Or did it strangle this retard?

Thread title should be "Irresposible man commits suicide when his wife doesn't entertain his frivolous expenses"

HappyWheels · 22nd April 2009, 20:01

So, what did Nano do here? Another "BMW" in the making is it?

Coming back to this guy, although a depart soul, what an idiot! Leaving behind a wife and kid just because he could not get a car!!!

I feel sorry for the lady and kid. They take a beating due to this illogical behavior of this guy.

22nd April 2009, 18:17	#16
BenjiRoss Senior - BHPian Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Tamilnadu Posts: 1,066 Thanked: 1,330 Times	Looking at it from a larger perspective this should open our eyes as to how fragile the human emotion and heart can be. People can do extreme things for what seems trivial to others. What I would like to highlight is that each day we may actually meet someone who is in such a phase in life and not even realise it! Just an encouraging word or actually realising that someone else is thinking extreme is so important. It's easy to blame somebody who committed or tried to commit suicide. But ask any psychiatrist or a social worker/counsellor who has worked with these people and you will get a lot more insight into suicide. In a lot of cases it is amazing at how close friends and relatives totally missed cues and signs that the person was depressed/suicidal well before the actual event! In conclusion, I believe the suicide was not caused simply by the 'Nano booking failure' but a set of situations (work, home, family others) and the media and police are just giving the superficial issue (the Nano) prominence and not looking at the deeper issue. I hope TBHP members do not follow in the same line as the media and police. As mentioned Suicide is never a way out at all. But a depressed person is in no state of mind to realise it. Suicide Helplines, a simple conversation, a friendly walk, etc have stopped many suicides - but of course not all! Last edited by BenjiRoss : 22nd April 2009 at 18:18.
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22nd April 2009, 19:58	#17
pranavt Senior - BHPian Join Date: May 2008 Location: Mumbai Posts: 1,682 Thanked: 639 Times View My Garage	Did the Nano tie the noose around this idiot's neck? Or did it strangle this retard? Thread title should be "Irresposible man commits suicide when his wife doesn't entertain his frivolous expenses"
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22nd April 2009, 20:01	#18
HappyWheels Senior - BHPian Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Bangalore Posts: 4,106 Thanked: 537 Times	So, what did Nano do here? Another "BMW" in the making is it? Coming back to this guy, although a depart soul, what an idiot! Leaving behind a wife and kid just because he could not get a car!!! I feel sorry for the lady and kid. They take a beating due to this illogical behavior of this guy.
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