Hoping Shankar can post after serving the ban period, however, its quite an interesting observation I made & thought to share it here.
Quote:
Originally Posted by shankar.balan Poor little children... |
My kids school provide open cupboards to submit the books there & take only whatever is required. Except a few kids who're attentive in class does that, rest of them are made as donkeys. And whoever submits are worse than donkeys because, the books get stolen, sometimes it gets back to the same place silently. Meanwhile, whoever loses the book has to make another copy. Good solution will be cupboard with keys, but, losing the key will be damn easy & the problems after that...whew!! Why do kids behave like this? Either Parents don't mind their kids bringing in someone else's book or worst case Parents don't get to know what their kids are doing.
Quote:
Originally Posted by shankar.balan Our education system...taught academics alone! |
Couple of years ago, our kid's school started an innovative program on weekends where kids get to cook something simple without using much complications or get to cut & sew clothes. For easy managing the kids, 4 teachers segregated entire class to 4 groups. First week it was cooking without using stove, may be mixie. Next weekend, there were some proud parents & some of kids relatives giving them a helping hand to "win". Third weekend, none of the kids were working in the class but the ones who accompanied them. Fourth week someone complained saying, children are too small (4th grade, around 9 yrs old) to handle kitchen knives & such things have to be banned. Needless to say what happened. Parents won!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by shankar.balan I can only feel sorry for all those children who are condemned to such drudgery by their silly parents, who lack any sort of vision themselves, except this madness to create a bunch of unthinking automatons - like lemmings rushing over a cliff top |
Quote:
Originally Posted by shankar.balan Worst is to see the little guys...protection bar and other such miserable sights |
Do the kids have an option to choose their own mode of transportation? I guess its the choice left to Parents right?
Quote:
Originally Posted by shankar.balan I think the basic problem is that...population growth numbers and stress on the already stretched resources |
No doubt our population is huge & I also agree that with our limited land mass area compared to population while the growth rate is also more. However we also have to take into account on the density of population as it determines the effective usage on the resources including the land. So when we take that into account, I was shocked to see Korea, Netherlands & Monaco (and China) in the list that are topping us. This means, there're countries in the world that are managing effective usage of their resources. So lack of resources is not the problem.
Source -
http://statisticstimes.com/demograph...on-density.php Quote:
Originally Posted by shankar.balan Such procreators should ask themselves...this planet, when it can be possibly avoided? |
Haha...I like to agree with you, but this is a planet that had both people like Hitler, Ghazni, Stalin, Genghis Khan etc & MK. Gandhi, Mandela, Lincoln, Martin Luther King, Ashoka etc. We could have someone growing up either sides & it is the system combined with the efforts of Parents & most importantly education that makes them take the sides. Noteably with the history of Mandela & King Ashoka & their U-turn transformation.
So, considering the above point, I've no say except that, we all ought to be a VERY RESPONSIBLE Parents otherwise there's no difference between a mongrel & us just that our kids go to school & keep doing what we do which is same as what a mongrel pup learns from its Mother on the street.
Summing up, it's all the fault in raising the kids is what I feel & eventually I get to share the same sentiments as you do just that I don't say it's the fault of school, it's all in the upbringing of the kids by Parents. I've 2 more strongest points to add...
1. Attend any PTM (I've been doing for last 6+ years), here're the most important points discussed by Parents...
a. He doesn't listen at home, spank him teacher
b. Give him more homework so that he studies well
c. I've aided him with tuition also, but still less marks
d. How can we support the child to get good marks?
And offlate, our PTM lasts no more than 1 minute because, we go there to sign. Whatever feedback is being asked with Parents, we let our kids fill it because they know the real problem encouraging them there will be no consequence to talk the truth right in front of the teacher
2. Offlate been seeing many small kiddos as early as 5th std, forget the riding a Dio, they don't know the first & foremost to keep left. They ride their bicycles in the way they like to ride & the way they like to take. This fault is 100% attributed to their respective Parents as I've witnessed many families taking the wrong side of the road everyday morning to drop their kids at bus stand & schools. So children behave exactly as what they're taught by their Parents. And Parents absolutely don't realize that they're making the place even unsafe for their children by giving a BS justification that,
who is following the law kind of rubbish