I am in such a unique situation quite opposite to most of you. I had an old Kawasaki KB100 inherited from my father which I swore that I would ride till the end, park beside my grave and then die
. But I bit the pill of familial love and murdered the bike to make it an ATV for use in our mango garden. The whole process is well-documented on this site itself.
And then, for a year, I had my two legs that took me even 3 kms away to fetch groceries for my mum. The looks that people gave me when I was walking on a rather empty and wide 4 lane road in an area devoid of shops thinking if I was mentally retarded to walk such a distance was truly embarrassing. BTW, I am a fair coloured muslim from south so naturally people assume that I am uber rich and have relatives in saudi, so not having a vehicle is out of question for them. Even my barber asked me why I don't bring my bike. The imam of mosque also asked me why I wont ride to the masjid and instead walk and be all sweaty. I would happily walk but these reasons embarrass me a lot.
And so, I used to take dad's bike in the mornings before he went to office or at night when he came back. I asked dad that I would drive our car to places but my dad thinks that I am trying to create a bubble of false prestige and luxury around me and so refused it. He used to ask me to drop him in the office on the bike, bring it back home, do my work and then pick him up in the evening. I did not mind that but the irritating thing was his timings. I sometimes forget to pick him up and call him late, sometimes he decides to stay late, sometimes he asks his agent a lift back home. All the guilt associated with discomforting dad killed me. He is an officer for god's sake and he asks one of his agents to give him a lift home because he lent the only bike in the house to his son. In my mind the agents are thinking "How poor must the officer be to not be able to afford another bike or how "khadoos" he should be to not allow his son the liberty of a bike". But my dad just does not get it that even an unemployed son will not be sitting at home months upon months. Just to clarify, I am not unemployed by choice, but my parents want me to have a govt job and I asked them that I would do a private job as an engineer in a city until I get one but he point blank refused it. According to him, I should be happy and thankful that I am sitting at home with all the amenities in luxury preparing for exams whereas he does not realize how miserable I feel with the tag of unemployed and friends, relatives and fellow colony people assuming that I am so incompetent that I cannot even get a job. And how can I tell them that I rejected 4 job offers that I got from internet job portals without sounding show-offy.
And finally the car we own, a 1995 Maruti 800 was too old and rust started showing up that we bought a used Hyundai Getz. Even that is a long story as dad bought a flood damaged car and gave me the responsibility of pouring sanjeevani into it and bringing it back home because I was a mechanical enngineer. All of restoration is documented on this site. And in the process of restoring Getz, after looking at the gremlins of modern car, mom was convinced to have something simple and mechanical and so we did not sell the M800. But the rusting car needed restoration and so I did it (I have just finished restoration and will be posting about it soon). And obviously, the car cannot be sitting idle so now, it is my ride to get stuff from here and there.
And that is why I drive a car as my primary and only ride. And I agree, a car is not as friendly as a bike in the crowded places. But it is a M800 and it will squeeze past by any gap wide enough for an overcrowded auto. So, no problems with driving it. And as much as I hate it, I admit that I am one of those people who use horn like a switch, leave it on for sometime if a slow vehicle does not give way on a fast road.
Parking is an issue at times but I just have to park it a block away in some small lane. I can walk the distance. After using it for a while, I have started to appreciate the secure feeling inside a car and how you can stand near a U-turn without any bus/auto bullying you as they go so fast so close to you etc. And protection from heat, safety in a crash/scratch because maniac drivers on suicide missions often overtake even if you are in opposite lane. If you are in a car, you can honk and be relatively carefree that max, you have to repair bumpers whereas on a bike, you have to get your skin repaired and a lot of pain.
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Originally Posted by ashis89 I know the practical solution of OLA/Uber. But every time I decide on calling one, I realize I can cover the distance in my own car at 40-50% lesser price and then take my car (I regret later due to frustration ). Secondly, the ease of own conveyance is stopping anywhere I feel like and then start again at will.
Even I feel vulnerable now whenever I ride a bike or ride pillion. My parents still insist on getting a scooter but I never felt worth spending 70k for something which I would use may be 100 kms per month. Thus, I putting it off till now. |
I agree with you and understand the feeling. I used to feel the same when I was in my college that pure economics dictate that buying a used bike and travelling on it and taking a cab level out to the same cost in four years.
I feel miserable when I have to come out, wait for a cab to arrive, point him out to the exact spot or keep finding him in the concrete and metal jungle. What is worse, my dad is so lazy that even when I came home after 21 hour journey from college (NIT nagpur to gulbarga), he used to ask me to take an auto home. After 21 hours of non-stop journey changing a train and a bus, bargaining with an auto, getting home with luggage in a town with no traffic jams and only 2 kms of distance just because dad wanted to stretch his legs was annoying.
After all, the motor vehicle became popular for the independence and the flexibility it offered the consumers.
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Originally Posted by sudheeshnairs I like to drive always rather than hailing a cab or using public transport. I try to have alternate vehicle if my car is given for service. My primary mode of transport is my 4 year old Skoda Rapid 1.6 TDI, in Bangalore. I had bought a Suzuki Swift also two years back which is kept in my home (locked) in Trivandrum. I spend a couple of days in Tvm once in 2 months or so and I prefer to have my own car rather than arranging a relative's car or cab.
I stopped using two wheeler from 2002 when I was in to my second year of work and bought my first car, a Tata Indica. From then I have not used two wheeler at all. I feel it is very dangerous in India to use two wheelers. I would not want my wife or daughter to ride a two wheeler either. Now I am about to buy another car, a premium hatch or compact SUV for wife & kid's use.
I like driving, or rather being in the car. It's like a second home for me. I dream, sleep, listen to music etc in the car. I have spent even up to 7 hours a day behind the wheel in the traffic choked streets/roads of Bangalore. My Skoda is my perfect companion in keeping me cocooned from the hustle & bustle, pollution, dirt & dust of Bangalore city roads. |
You seem to symoblize the bumper sticker "Live to Drive". Agreed with you.
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Originally Posted by pamiboy Congratulations. You sound like the rest of 99% of world population (me included). Ha ha.
Jokes apart, I agree that two wheelers are very dangerous to ride in India. Several people I know including some of my friends have died in two wheeler accidents. |
Yup. Two wheelers are indeed very dangerous. My aunt passed away in November 2015 when she jumped a tractor with a trailer carrying sand in Kakinada when she was crossing the road on scooty. The tractor slammed the brakes with over-reaction to the situation. The tractor spun left and trampled my aunt dead. I later found out that it was partially the tractor's fault when I was enlightened that the tractor has independent wheel braking and these tractor drivers wantedly overtighten the left brake so that in emergency braking, it swerves to the left because traffic is usually to the right.
So, yes, because there are fools who setup their tractor wrongly and because mistakes happen in life, it is better to be safe than sorry. So, a car for me is a good idea.