Great to see a candid and interesting thread, vixit!
To be honest, years of playing open-world video games like Grand Theft Auto (GTA) San Andreas, GTA V and racing games like Need For Speed (NFS) Most Wanted, etc. helped me to learn driving quickly, despite playing them on a PC with keyboard & mouse. Still, my path to learning to drive a car wasn't without obstacles, especially psychological ones. Apologies for the incoming long story of "How I learnt to drive".
Dad never allowed me to drive a car alone without having a licence, which stopped me from driving cars earlier. Anyways, I started learning to start and move a car front and in reverse, and made a circle in front of grandpa's house in his then Maruti 800, when I was 17.
Moving forward, dad gave me some driving lessons in his Ford Fiesta 1.6 (petrol) in empty neighborhood streets. Initially, I struggled with the
clutch-throttle coordination and it made me nervous many times, since I was afraid that I would launch the car too quickly and crash.
One day, dad pulled over on a highway and asked me to drive. Surprised, I took the baby steps by driving at 60-70 kph. In no time I got the hang of driving on highways and found myself doing 90 kph. Next time, I did 90-100 kph comfortably on the same highway.
Due to lack of practice and my fear of launching the car too quickly, I still struggled with the clutch while starting the car from rest, and stalled it a lot. Dad once scolded me after he got disappointed with me stalling the car a lot while parking inside apartments.
Anyways, my journey of learning to drive wasn't complete without shenanigans. I scratched and dented both of Fiesta's rear fenders a lot while I was taking my parking lessons alone and managed to bend RH ORVM in opposite direction with the help of pillar!
dad!
Thanks to my laziness and lack of confidence, I never went beyond aforementioned scenario, and didn't drive in city traffic for sometime. This also made me postpone the day of Test for Licence. My friend advised me to get the licence and then practice driving.
I couldn't bear the delay and out of nowhere I got a burst of confidence to take our Fiesta for a drive in Chennai traffic alone one day. Fortunately I never stalled the car even once. Learning that I can drive boosted my confidence even more and I found myself taking a wide road curve at 60-70 kph without an iota of fear, thanks to the Fiesta's driving dynamics inspiring confidence in me.
That moment restored my confidence and love for driving, and then I wasn't afraid of doing the other side of 100 kph on highways. Riding on my newly boosted confidence, I got ready and had the date for Driving Test fixed.
When the date came, I was still a bit nervous because of not being aware of what a driving test really is. I reached the RTO ground early on instructor's advice, and practiced in a Driving School's Maruti Alto. I got relieved when I knew it was so easy. For bike test, I borrowed fellow person's Duke 200 and passed the 8-pattern test. For the car test, I had to only
drive around half the ground in 2nd gear and to stop and engage handbrake. This I passed, and got my name confirmed for getting my licence.
At the age of 19 (almost 20), I held my driving licence in my hand for the first time. I never felt so independent in my life before. I got the right to drive cars and bikes! That moment was a joy in my life. Today, after almost 2 years of driving, I've driven cars for around 6000 kms, and I happily continue to do so.
Thanks for your patience people! I thank vixit once again for starting this candid thread, which has motivated me to share my roller-coaster story of learning to drive.
Live to drive,
Ultim8