Hey appuchan... Sorry for joining this thread so late!
Congratulations... and I'm so glad that you've stuck to your resolve (no honk policy) for over a year! You've company here, mate... I've never honked once in my life ever (excepting maybe to test while taking delivery of vehicles). I've driven cars and two-wheelers on Indian roads for decades... but have never once honked or even felt the need to, believe me I'm 100% honest. I've a strange background to this (very proud) habit and I hope you'll bear with me for the rather long story...
Several decades back-- 1970, to be precise, when I was a 13-year old boy-- I was riding a bicycle in Nagercoil, the headquarters of Kanyakumari district in Tamil Nadu. The vehicular traffic in those days was hardly anything to write about but people in Nagercoil were used to hogging the roads while walking. For those who know Nagercoil, it's a small town with steep, winding roads. One evening, I was bicycling down the steepest stretch, furiously ringing the hand-bell "cring-cring". As I entered a narrow stretch near the clock tower junction, a particularly adamant "Mid-Road Walker" (let's call him Mr MRW, who was in his mid-40s) was refusing to give me way. I kept furiously ringing the bell and he simply refused to even acknowledge... well for a few seconds. Then, in filmy style, he turned round, unfolded and folded his dhoti back, grabbed the handle bar of my cycle with his left hand and gave me a slap that turned the lights off me ***... When I woke up about a minute later, I found Mr MRW staring down at me. I lived in Nagercoil for another 2 years. Never once did I have the courage to ring the cycle bell again, fearing that Mr MRWwould be lurking somewhere around! Instead, I became an expert at manoeuvring around people and objects even in the busiest of places. My habit continued till I passed out of IIT Madras in 1979. Since then, I've driven more evolved vehicles, but my imaginary fear for Mr MRW is embedded into my id (Thank you Mr MRW, wherever you are!).
I have visited countries at different levels of evolution of civilisation (as far as driving goes). Yet, till date I've never had the urge to honk even once, whenever, wherever. I'm known in my circles to be a very, very fast driver... and even today, I daresay, very few can take me on in a drag race. Yet, I never, ever honk. I work for a reputed MNC proud about its core values. Several years back, each one of us had to undergo a standardised defensive driving course. As part of the course, we also had go through a mandatory Commentary Drive with my immediate supervisor in presence of a Defensive Driving instructor. At the end of the commentary drive, my boss had nothing adverse to report, so commented: "Need to learn more frequent use of horn". I commented back in writing: "Honking is uncivilised, hence will not practise this habit".
Notwithstanding Mr MRW, a fundamental philosophy is at the core of my driving habits. I believe that every mobile form of life has a right of way on this planet over every mobile form of machine, no matter what the road signs may say, no matter whether the road is public or private. Once this philosophy is hard-wired into your brain, driving becomes naturally civilised and supremely enjoyable. Use your skills at manoeuvring, braking, anticipation and acceleration, but never, ever honk. If you believe that an accident could be avoided by honking, avoid it by alternate means. Horn is not a substitute for defensive driving skills or attitude. The only exception when you should honk is when an accident is inevitable and you should honk to mitigate (as opposed to avoid) the effect of the accident. Many people, especially in India, believe that sporty driving and defensive techniques don't go together. If you ever get a chance, observe the normal city driving skills of Michael Schumaker or Alonso...
Take this message: Honking is uncivilised, no matter what the local rule book will say. If you want to differentiate yourself from the uncivilised lot, stop honking for ever-- not even the occasional tap. Start by believing that all mobile forms of life on road are 100% DEAF. I bet you'll be surprised when you realise (like appuchan did) how easy it is to practise... Just do it! |