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Originally Posted by sterlingjames dude! while i admire your calm, there's no way that you should have backed down!..know what i do?i carry a flip pocket knife which i use to pick my teeth with everytime some frustrated jerk tries to drive closer confront me..the look on their faces is priceless!!!.but i am also someone who will also make good on what i show,so that's it...i also think a little further ahead and considering the fact that my car is fully insured, i wouldnt think twice of taking that jerk out if need be(all done legally and from the correct side of the road of course) for FIR's sake... |
Although I do understand your feelings, but I have to disagree. Being a professional performance tuner I drive cars every day. I personally love small cars that are turned into sleepers. This upsets a lot of people dispite the fact that the cars never are overly loud.
Having had many experiences (I am now 50) I have learned to deal with it in a way that gets me forward.
First rule is: Whoever keeps the cool is in control.
Second rule: Solving the situation without violence shows human strength. Violence is for losers.
Defending yourself physically against a phvsical atack is not violence, but should be the last rersort.
The last time I had an incident someone tried to push me off the lane I was in for a reason I don'T know. When honking the guy lowered his window hurling abuse at me. I replied to him that he should learn the highway code.
He then suggested to stop at the next corner to settle this, which would have meant a fight.
I replied to him that if I stop there I will arrest him (under British law anyone can make a citizens arrest). The looks on his face were priceless. This was the end of it.
Another incident I had was a drug dealer cutting in my lane on a very busy roundabout from a traffic light. He thought that he is quicker than me but wasn't. So he forced me to brake hard. I obviously made use of the horn. He played about braking in front of me slowing the traffic down. I managed to pass him by quickly changing the lane. He then sat on my bumper. Due to realising that he is some drug dealing scum I could have taken a risk, but I would have to be quicker than his gun (which he most likely has got illegally anyway). Worth the messy outcome?
All I did is showing him the extendable wheel brace, which I most of the time have in reach while driving as I realised it is a great deterrent.
The guy who is so full of himself just backed off.
The point I am trying to make is that I do understand such situations. But what I do know is that if you do not kepp your temper under control it will catch up with you even if it is many years later.
And if you keep your temper under control a lot of people will have respect for you, which includes people that aren't fond of you.
You might now say that it is easy for a German to say. I can only reply that I am not the coolest person te planet. I have got no tongue left to bite because it is a challenge for me every single time.
But I managed to succeed because I immediately try to think of the consequences.
To the original poster: WELL DONE!