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Originally Posted by 53BHP I always wonder when these surveys and reports come out saying India has the highest rate of road fatalities in the world. Is it really true. Agreed India has a large population but per capita ownership is among the lowest in the world. Plus there's so many thousands of Gods to protect us.
It was then that an epiphany struck me . Its not because we have poor traffic laws, bad policing or lax policies that there are so many accidents and fatalities:
WE HAVE NO VALUE FOR OUR OWN LIVES!!
When that man saw us taking snaps, he actually turned on the full volume of his roadshow and started doing crazier things. We actually had to back off the gas for fear of an accident. The man is wearing a helmet that will probably only protect his head from bird poop falling from the sky above. And his son (i assume its his son, and hope its not someone else's boy) has on a cotton skull cap. Oh and Bono style shades that flew off on the road |
1) In India if you do wrong things, you are considered SMART. If you focus on their smartness, they will try to act smarter and do the wrong activities even more. This is India. Applicable in each and every walk of life in India.
2) The images you have posted above show our mentality. Think what would happen if instead of pulsar they have 2.4ltr Accord/Camry and the kid is let loose. We have seen aftermath of such driving in many posts IIRC. If our mentality is not improving, I dont think that any other parameters are going to improve in our Country.
This person will learn the hard way round. Hopefully he realizes what he is doing quite early before it is too late to recover.
3) Are you shocked at this ? I am not, I have seen worse. I have seen 3-4 year old kids sitting in father's lap when father is driving car without wearing seat belts. And the kids do have their hands on steering wheel. I have seen 6-7 month old kids sitting in mom's or dad's as they( mom/dad) are driving .
I have seen Dad driving car, and kid again, 4-6 years old is standing in the front seat of car. Neither of them are wearing belts. Mom often sitting back actually takes pride in activities of kid when the kid is standing on seat, taking his hand out, trying to get hold on steering wheel, etc.
I have seen 13 year olds ride motorized two wheelers. Parents take pride and say that the " kid is just awesome, so fast to learn new things and he is a rocket when he is driving that two wheeler ". Neighbors and relatives/friends act as catalyst to this phenomenon.
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Originally Posted by kraft.wagen wonder what the hell that guy was thinking. Such a moron!
Is it ok in such situations to make him stop and give a piece of mind? |
Never ever try to give your piece of mind. I had earlier tried that, but in return got a scolding from the person. A child was sitting in grand fahter's lap in Accord ( latest generation ). GrandFather was not wearing seatbelt. I knocked on his window at traffic junction ( Dr. Ambedkar Statue, GEB, RC dutt road, vadodara ) and told him he was making mistake.
Reply to me was " I have worked hard all my life. I got this success later in my life. I have seen this world more than you. You are just a kid trying to act smart. dont teach me. I am 65 years old..." His lecture lasted 20 mins. He proved that I am a failure as compared to him.
In another instance, I tried to inform parents going on Boxer that its wrong if their child less than 16 years old is riding Scooty. Mom and Dad on Boxer, 13-14 year old son riding scooty, around 16-17 year old daughter riding pillion on scooty. They all were going to restaurant. Got a huge lecture again and this time it was tuitions. I told him that I did cycling for entire std 10 even if my father could have easily afforded a vehicle. Its was 12 km, almost daily. Nobody had time to listen to me.
Stay away from these people and dont try to change them. If you try to do so, they feel you are actually decreasing their smartness and dont want them to come up in life.
@mods : sorry for a long post. I am shocked and angry after looking at the images, so posted my experience.