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Originally Posted by tsk1979 Are there two people typing here. Its like you type one line. Then this other guy comes and puts in the other line |
I generally hate tirades and refuse to get heated up. This time too, I will choose not to respond.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 So its okay to murder, break rules etc,. just because its in our instinct. You surely have a warped sense of morality! |
No, tsk1979, I'm not saying that it's OK to murder or break rules. I'm saying that desperation & animal insticts (read: fight for survival) drive people to do so (and yes, in some cases, different wiring-psychpathy-lust-rebel instinct-"seen to be different/famous"-ego trip). As prince_pervez put it so much better, that I probably could not, is that had the scarcity not been there, as it isn't in the case of truckers, even the cab-wallahs would have driven properly and followed rules.
Truckers & cabbies have generally the same background (in all fairness, I don't have any research to back me up!). Conditioning makes them behave diferently.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 IF you say driving on drugs and totally under Influence gentlemanly... well what can I say! |
Well, in that case, what you are saying is that you don't consider truckers gentlemanly. Fair enough! everyone has a right to his or her opinion.
All I can hope for is that others might see merit in my arguments and bring them in their realm of consideration.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 But then basically we were all born naked. But I do not see many people running around naked. |
Even though I have gotten
heat-er, I'll let this pass. Especially, since I could not understand the context.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 Are there two people typing here. Its like you type one line. Then this other guy comes and puts in the other line |
I start getting even hotter. But, rather than taking up on the provocation, I get up and put on the AC in this uncharacterstic chilly Mumbai winter. I hope I don't catch a cold.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 Even when the traffic jam is there for 30 minutes, 3 lanes mean 3 lanes. It has nothing to do with scarcity or conditions of road. It has to do with the culture. |
Well, I differ here. I think it's conditioning that makes the, "culture" as you put it. Had infrastructure in the US lacked as much as it does in, say Mumbai, and had those US cabbies seen the lack of infastructure right from their childhood (and had their parents too seen the same), all the time-every time, I believe that even they would have behaved like our cabbies do.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 For example, New York is very different. If you go there you will not miss home at all. |
I think it goes on to prove my point above. Conditioning plays a very important part in how people behave.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 So all people who go to brothels are not gentlemen, and those who do not go to brothels are gentlemen. Are you saying that people who drive bad go to brothels? Or maybe we all should go to brothels. I am confused
I think this is the other guy now |
As prince_pervez said, I indeed have used very bad examples to get you so heated up.
All I was trying to show was that truckers are not necessarily more gentlemanly in how they conduct their life. However, on the road they do behave more gentlemanly.
I used the brothel example to drive home the point (probably, even as a metaphor or as an exaggeration). My apologies.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 No, some people are just wired differently. Thats why you have "chors" as you put it in the developed world also. Thats why you have very rich people stealing money from their shareholders. By your logic only the poor should be dishonest. |
Here, I do agree with you. Some people, and "some" is the operative word here, indeed are wired differently. In my initial post, I had considered penning this down. "Some" people WILL behave ungentlemanly given whatever conditions. They would love to go against rules, against society; probably, seeing themselves as iconoclasts or rebels.
The reason I didn't put it down was because I thought it might weaken the argument I was putting across and also because I believe (and hope!) that the percentage of such people is not very high.
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Originally Posted by tsk1979 But then your logic is totally 2 persons logic! |
I hope this shows that I consider differing opinions and have the sensibility to weigh both and put things in perspective. No? Oh! hopes dashed.
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Originally Posted by prince_pervez Manish the main difference between here and there is the infrastructure per civic density.
Here there is too much infrastructure for too less people (in most places in the US).
So people can afford to wait and be patient.
In India, if you be patient on the road and give way, there will be other people behind who will honk their throats out and the others behind the one you gave way will take undue advantage of your manners and pour on the road not giving 2 hoots about your right of way.
Give Indians a better infrastructure and education on traffic manner and we can be the best there can ever be anywhere in the planet.
Inversely, give the same population of India to the US and people will not hesitate to use their guns for every petty matter.
Indians here are well behaved as far as traffic manners are concerned and I too am a part of it as I don't want to land in jail as I fear the cops.
Simple. In India too I tend to an follow every rule there is unless situations and people compel me to do otherwise. E.g. At a signal in Bangalore people were whizzing past me when I was waiting on a red. I was on a 2 wheeler and a Wagon R just missed me. I feared for my life and I wanted to break the signal and save my life. Thankfully some other motorists stopped behind me and so did some others later.
I do not disagree with everything you said but, lets say you could have used some better examples. |
I agree one hundred percent. I'll try being more sensible in the examples I use.
My sincere apologies to anyone whom I might have hurt.