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BHPian ![]() | re: How safe are our highways? Unfortunate Accident Vishwas. Good thing no one got injured seriously. It will take a bit of time to get over. Quote:
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As per traffic law, every vehicle should possess valid documents. In my case, I had every document required for my car. The truck driver didn't. The truck driver was supposed to indicate/signal before changing a lane or making a turn. He didn't. Distance wise, I wasn't anywhere close to the truck. I have come to terms with this episode. Many thanks. Quote:
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I don’t think you’ve read the article. Please read it carefully. I wasn’t the one overtaking the truck. I stuck to one lane and the truck driver was the one who changed lanes without signalling. How would this be my mistake? It’s very easy to come down hard on someone. Put yourself in my shoes for a moment. One would have to be paranoid to be uber cautious each time a vehicle passes by. You are correct. 110KPH isn’t legal. But it’s not illegal either. But in this case it wasn’t speed that mattered. It was the distance and time which mattered. Frankly if you saw the skid marks you would realize I barely had any time or distance to brake. All because he swerved without warning. Yes, I am also responsible for the accident. My mistake was travelling with family to a different part of the country for the weekend to visit a temple. The answer to all your questions is a big fat yes. I am always the one to fight when someone jumps the queue or when the Autorikshaw demands excess fare. I am the first one in my friends’ circle who got my voters ID when I turned 18. And I have voted in all the elections so far. I was the first in my friends’ circle to buy a helmet half an hour after I bought my bike. I spent my 25th birthday shuttling between Bowring hospital and Ashoknagar Police station to save a friend’s friend’s backside because she was involved in an accident when an Autorikshaw rammed into her in the middle of the night. Oh and it wasn’t her fault because the Autorikshaw jumped the signal and rammed into her. She wasn’t from Bangalore and I was the only localite my friend knew. So I am not responsible for this mess, my dear friend. I am the odd one out. And I am not proud of it. Because I get into trouble for standing up for what’s right. So yes, I haven’t failed so far and I never will. You are entitled to say what you think is right. But what is not right is that you must not judge people without knowing them. I may have given you the impression that I keep punching people around but the truth is, I don’t. I was honest enough to admit I raised my hand. I could have easily made myself look completely innocent, but I didn’t. I could have manipulated the entire incident to make it look like I wasn’t at fault completely, but I didn’t. You have a right to have an opinion. So you can relax, my dear friend. I will not punch you. Quote:
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Thanks KRRaj. Yes I am feeling a lot better now. I am just hoping things will change. Last edited by aah78 : 29th December 2010 at 23:00. Reason: Posts merged. Please use QUOTE+ / MULTI-QUOTE when responding to multple posts. Thanks! | |||||||
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| re: How safe are our highways? Vishwas, I totally sympathize with you mate and am glad that no one received any life threatening injury. The driver & the cop(s) deserve punishment and they will get what's due. But you gotta realize that this is India and you can't expect people to do the right thing, be that anything. One's gotta take real care of oneself when on the road. And by not doing this you're at fault too. Driving at 100+ speeds on a 2 lane road with a divider coming up and a truck (or any vehicle) around is a strict no no. What if it was a scooter/bike and you'd collided with it? Hope you're able to put this accident behind you quickly and also that you take the lesson with you. |
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| re: How safe are our highways? Vishwas, I suggest that you try and get this out of your mind ASAP. I know its quite difficult. By the way, whats happening now? Is the insurance survey done ? Also , i was just wondering if the car can be got back to perfect shape and handling as before. It should be very difficult to see the car like this. i get really upset seeing cars in such mess. Please keep posting on the progress. Please PM me if you think i could be of some help. |
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| re: How safe are our highways? Tough experience vishwas, but don't let it kill your faith in your driving. Be more careful next time, and getting into a brawl on-road is best avoided. Road-rage can get ridiculously dangerous in an instant. Just yesterday, there was a TOI report of a youth getting shot (and killed) just because he carelessly opened his car-door that banged into a couple guys walking by. Never, never get into a brawl, esp. when you have family with you. |
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Had you honked, the trucker would've definitely come into senses. I agree that the trucker should've signalled, but I would not completely blame him since you too have not signalled your presence! Quote:
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To be plain: Both are at fault. Thank your stars that the trucker did not bother filing an offence against you for manhandling the driver. Like you said, This is India. | |||
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But please try to understand what I am trying to put across for a second if you may. How can one assume people like truck drivers to be educated and so much informed to drive sensibly and appropriately? They are overworked, on drugs and half asleep on the run most of the time. They are a zillion miles away from being acceptable road users. And with the things we have in place, I dont see anything changing in the near future. Safety is non-existent on the road in our nation. So when things are like this the only thing we can do is to be extra cautious on the road. I myself lost 29 close friends, relatives and kin on the roads over the last 15 years. Its a very short span of time for that to happen and except for two people dying in a single accident, The rest were victims in 27 different incidents. And I really cant account how many are left maimed. vishwasvr had a really unfortunate experience, And I darn well should have been a little considerate with my use of words back there when he was down and in such a state of mind. I apologize for that. But you should also know that I never said the lorry driver did right and was not at fault, Anyone knows he was the major contributor and should have indicated he was about to make the turn. vishwasvr already said what the lorry driver did wrong and I too totally agree with that and I also did not think that it was important that I also corroborated that, Cause thats an obvious fact and crystal clear. But I felt he did not take into consideration his contributory factor. I hope you understand how trucks make a turn around a median. Almost everywhere on a two lane(Four Lane when both sides are put into consideration) highway the medians are too small to let the truck take a U-turn by sticking to the right lane. They do it by keeping to the left lane and then taking the turn by going across the right lane which is always dangerous. And yes big mistake from the truckie for not signalling. But do you think he might have done that on purpose? It is for sure his negligence and could have been a grave one if the car was not an Octy. And I said things from a legal point of view. I dont support the truckie nor can I say vishwasvr was totally not at fault. And the way I looked at things is exactly how they examine a case at a claims tribunal to go into judgement. They always look at how and whether any of the people who were involved in the accident contributed towards the accident, and if they did what was the extent of their individual contributions and how the accident could have been averted if any of the people had done something which they could have done naturally to avoid it. And the verdict is arrived at based on those factors. I had to say what I did because I see a lot of people believing that speed limits are non-existent on highways. The government has kept the speed limits at such seemingly ridiculous figures (A 50kmph Max speed limit that is common and shared equally for a 100cc bike and 1000cc Superbike sounds ridculous, No doubt.) because they very well know that idiots like the lorry drivers are present on all the highways across the land and you cant go and make them drive like Englishmen overnight. Till things become more civilized on the roads in our nation we have to be extremely cautious on the highways. | |
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| So am I supposed to stick to the left lane and cruise at say 100kmph? I remember almost every stretch of the highway which had sign boards that read "slower vehicles should stick to the left lane". I was at a higher speed, hence had to stick to the right lane. As far as I am concerned, this is the right thing to do. The reason why he stopped midway was because I kept honking and he realized he was in my way and that's why the impact was so severe. Had he continued his speed, the impact may not have been this severe. It seems like I have to give up being honest and probably have to blatantly lie and blame someone else completely. Quote:
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Yes, the engine was running normally. I had to park the car to the left of the road and the engine sounded normal. Sure will do. Many thanks for the support. Quote:
Yes I read that. I'll try to search for this well written article about road rage in India. Will send it when I find it. Quote:
Absolutely. I guess its just bad luck this time. Yes, I've come to terms with this incident. Thanks a lot for the support. Last edited by Zappo : 30th December 2010 at 01:04. Reason: You have already been suggested once to use multi quote. Please desist from making these back to back posts. Merged. | ||||
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I've seen a lot of incidents of road rage going around over the years and things are escalating alarmingly.Years back I've been on the receiving end as well when the driver of an interstate KSRTC bus got pissed with the traffic jam on the Bangalore Mysore highway and decided to move ahead by bumping my puny old 800 onto the foot path. He broke my rear bumper along with the tail lights and there was some damage to the front bumper as well. I chased and caught up with him when the traffic opened and once I was level with him on his right, my friend in the passenger seat shouted at him to stop else we are going to call the police. You know what he did?, He gave him a smile and shoved us off the road on to the right denting our car on the left side as well. That was my lesson and I've never ever confronted any guy on the road again, Its way too dangerous is what I've learnt. Even the cops at the next junction did not bother to help us back then since we were not locals or from that state. And I have read your post clearly, I once again went through it to make sure I did not miss something. And Vishwas, I appreciate the fact that you are a responsible person and really have more respect for you after learning that you are someone who actually does something for the society at large. But still you should know that you do have a contributory factor in your incident with the speed you were clocking and not taking into account that its a median and that the truckie might turn without indication. Haven't you noticed before that truckies and other commercial drivers behave like that without any warning? Another thing is you might not have overtaken the truck at the time of the impact but if he did not make that turn, You would have overtook him in like 3 seconds at that speed and proximity as he was on the left and you were on the right. So you must have known that you were about to overtake him. And he might have not seen you at all and you had said the highway was deserted for 100 metres on either side. The truckie might have been reluctant to admit his fault as otherwise he would be held accountable for the incident and God knows if he has any insurance at all. If he has no insurance then the damages you had incurred will come out of his or the lorry owner's pocket if you go for a claim petition at court. So anyone in his situation will point the finger at you. And these kind of people know very well on how to fend for themselves when involved in such a situation. One more thing, when the book says that the maximum speed is 80 Kmph-110 Kmph is 100 percent illegal. Just see what your counsel is going to say in court if at all you go for your claim petition. He will delete the 110Kmph speed in the story else you might be going home empty handed at verdict. Try to see where you erred, even if it is small. You might not get a second chance or next time to correct things. "It seems like I have to give up being honest and probably have to blatantly lie and blame someone else completely." On that statement, I have nothing to say, Its your decision to make. Once again sorry for making you miserable, Wont bother you ever again. Last edited by jalex77 : 29th December 2010 at 23:38. | |
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| re: How safe are our highways? Hello Vishwas, First of all, glad that no one was hurt seriously and glad that you are all OK to report this incident here at Team BHP. Although brawl is best avoided, I think you have handled yourself pretty well. Please dont think that I'm justifying you landing punches on the Lorry drivers face, But I'm glad maturity stepped in and you stopped. You were scared that something worse could have happened and you wanted to teach him a lesson. But as suggested by everyone else, you should've avoided it. It is easy for most of us to sit behind the comforts of a laptop / desktop and recommend 'what you should have done' but facing it first hand with your loved one's (your car included) is totally different. Its hard to say how one reacts to such a situation but I must admit that you have done pretty well. Last edited by azeemhafiz : 30th December 2010 at 00:31. Reason: Grammer |
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Senior - BHPian ![]() | re: How safe are our highways? Baap re! Thank God you and your Family members are safe Vishwas. Its easy for me to say from here that a brawl can be avoided, although, sometimes even a rash overtaking manuver gets to me. Whether India or abroad, truckers do have a bigger and bader blind spot than anyone else. Overtaking these rigs should be done carefully let alone being close to them. Time is the best healer. Go on a vacation, seriously. |
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The sign boards are to remind slower vehicles that they are required to compulsorily stick to the left lane - but that does not mean the faster vehicles are free to drive on the overtaking lane. He did the right thing here. Your duty does not stop at honking - you are supposed to reduce your speed as well. Having been involved in a similar incident myself, I emphasise on this point - the driver's duty does not end at just honking, but also be prepared to stop. I know that one does not get so many reflexes in such situations, but one should be prepared for this. This is why one should be always doubly cautious while trying to overtake a huge vehicle - they have huge blind spots. | |
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| re: How safe are our highways? Whole of last week I was in Kerala and man the roads are so narrow and they call it National Highway, namely NH212,NH220,NH47 etc. No respect for any vehicles. Even if they see a bus coming in front these guys try to overtake and squeeze between the vehicles at the last minute. They drive so dangerously that it is very difficult to predict what their next move is and adding to this all the curves are blind curves and they attempt the overtaking stunt at these blind curves itself. Every time a vehicle used to pass me, I used just check my OVRMS if they are on the vehicle itself or flown off. |
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