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Originally Posted by ananthkamath We just might have if we had not had this self-deprecating attitude and tendency to divide ourselves based on caste & language. |
Cliche. Quote:
Originally Posted by ananthkamath I mean, if you see an Indian guy on the street in America today, 99% chances are he will not smile back, rather he will have a smirk on his face and that smug "I am better than you" look. |
I have experienced it as well. Have had more Pakistani and Bangladeshi people being warm and friendly to me than my own countrymen. Quote:
Originally Posted by ananthkamath We Indians really arent from the same country, we just happen to be from the same geographical area. And therefore we can never appreciate what a fellow Indian has done well enough to support it. |
Another cliche.
Ananth, the problem I find with Ram's post is that it somehow seems to reinforce the fact that we hate our selves and others, because we find we are not respected enough.
The Wright brothers got credit for the aeroplane? So what? That does not mean that we clutch at straws to prove that we are better than the others.
We are so desperate to prove that we are/were a great civilization/culture that I am afraid we end up making ourselves look stupid. How many of you have gone to a Indus valley site and marveled at their accomplishments instead of paying lip/SMS service to the Taj? How many have tried to be polite to the taxi driver, the bai, the bus conductor because being polite is being cultured?
Somewhere in our psyche I think is buried a feeling that others look down on us and we have to show them that we are great. Much like, I don't have money to buy the milk chocolate you can afford because your father is rich. , but hey, my great grandfather had more cows than your grandfather did.
Idealism is good once in a while if we can show results - wipe out poverty, safeguard women, publish more scientific papers etc. But this claim to greatness based on something that might, but most probably has not happened is too much. And as I posted earlier, we are not alone. The Chinese are no better. At least they are doing something. |