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Originally Posted by shankar.balan These self-same parents will take their International postings and take their kids with them and then, be forced to imbibe the rules and norms of the International societies that they land in - but only for a time. Because when they come back to dear old homeland, they will simply "revert to type" and very fast too! |
I fully agree with your very blunt statement. Without wanting to stereotype, let me say that I have come across many such types who will toe the line (largely) abroad, but revert back to type as soon as back in the homeland.
It is across the spectrum and includes pretty senior people too - case in point is where I stay: a gated community with far wealthier people than me + my previous 14 forefathers put together. Many of them made a lot of money in the US software boom times and brought it back to India while times were still good.
BUT if you interact with them most 'sane' people will realize the shallowness of their characters. A few examples:
Without exception their kids study at the international and 'international' schools. Most of them are American citizens and care 2 hoots about Indian culture, values, humility and respecting those who cary out manual labour etc.
I cannot blame them as their parents are equally bad if not worse. Many of them treat Indian festivals as a onerous burden and mix mostly with the trash 'expat' set who deride most aspects of our culture. Even our Republic & Independence Days are treated as a joke and many do not bother to come.
Some of them do not hold Indian driving licenses (lapsed etc.) but make it a point to boast that why bother when a 'Gandhiji' is enough.
Driving etiquette is pathetic and borders on outrageous if any 'small' car belittles their CLA/GLA/Countryman egos. This goes for their chauffeurs (without exception silver/golden Innovas) as well as they are given the impression that Saab will save them whatever happens.
Road and traffic guidelines are largely treated as a joke.
Many merrily violate community guidelines on property extensions and modifications.
Collection of sundry maintenance charges becomes an issue as they question every paise spent.
Garbage segregation, water conservation turns out to be an uphill task as many do not comply.
Some blame India for everything starting from BESCOM pulling their fuses due to unpaid bills. Why have they not paid? It is because they have misplaced the paper bill and cannot be bothered to either register and pay online or maintain adequate balance for 2 months bills with BESCOM.
I could go on and on but GTO will (very rightly) point out this is off-topic :-)
Net net, some many educated people in India go abroad, work hard and return. Unfortunately, many do not imbibe the better things of the West (like civic sense, cleanliness, respect for all, orderliness, discipline etc.)
We have a LONG way to go...