Dear Friends,
Just back from a wonderful trip of USA and what a trip it was, simply awesome. Really not sure if it is just with me or it is common with most of us that all trips do get planned on the Saturday morning while having coffee. This trip was no different and also got planned on the coffee table. So lovingly call it as " Coffee with Mom" which does the magic and many of my big trips have been planned at that time. Also may be this is all because of the Wander mind (WM) we all have in common and are looking for some occasion to set sail and move out of town. Good part with me is that I have couple of friends who have similar wanderer mind like me and it is really difficult for us to sit at home especially on weekends. But there are always two opposition parties ready to oppose the wanderer mind which I call the dreaded two " Practical Mind (PM) and Money Mind (MM)". In most cases I manage to convince these dreaded two with ease but this time I knew at the back of my mind that it is not going to be easy. So continuing with my story of "Coffee with Mom", my Mom and Dad had plans to visit my sister in US and 2 months prior to their visit we were causally having coffee and planning their trip. Out of blue mom casually asked me : why don't you join us to USA this time ? and we all can have a great family re-union ( My elder sister who resides in UK was also visiting my sister in USA ) This came in as a big surprise and I just shrugged off the idea with a big " what " followed by " absolutely not ". The way that "absolutely not" came I knew from where it was coming from. You guys guessed it right it was from the two dreaded two PM and MM. Instantly like the ruling party of my mind my WM could not take that defeat and started to work and that to over time. So ran to kitchen and grabbed one more mug of coffee to keep the conversation on. Instantly ideas started to ponder on my mind " What USA trip ?? wow and that too after long 10 years. I studied in Oklahoma USA 10 years back and after that never got an opportunity to visit US of A. Though professionally opportunities came couple of times by somehow got cancelled or delayed. Bottom line was that I had not visited USA in last 10 years and had many thing which I had missed and not seen in my previous trips.
2 hrs. had passed by and mom was back to normal with her daily routine and same with other most important people of the house (Her Majesty - Wifey dear ) Dad and daughter. Wifey dear did not ask me a single question and I presumed her thoughts were like " Raat gayi baat gayi" but she did not had the slightest idea that WM had come out winner in those 2 hrs. and now was also wandering in the US of A. I had decided that next morning again along with coffee I will table this USA Trip Bill in home parliament and was hopeful the bill will get passed with majority votes. So by evening like true politician started to count my votes and my chances of winning. So the math’s looked like this 2 votes for " Yes " (WM and Mom) and 2 for " No" (PM and MM ). Dad was neutral and was ready to provide outside support and daughter's vote did not count. So now the deciding vote was to come from....Wifey Dear.
So now was the big question how to convince wifey dear ? So in the evening again started the topic with wifey like, how nostalgic I was feeling remembering the days I was in USA and the fun I had and quietly passed the dreaded question - Should we go ? and to my surprise she said " why not " you have seen but I haven't and I am also very excited to see USA. So when are we going ? My ears actually did not believe what they heard and to confirm that this not some kind of sarcasm again asked are you sure and the answer was still the same. My joy seemed no boundary and my WM started to feel like what a lucky day it is today and all my wishes are coming true. So next morning the bill was passed smoothly in home parliament and celebrations started and the wish lists flowing in. First was my 4 year daughter with her wish of visiting the Disney Land !Though WM had somehow sneaked in the victory still the PM and MM were still very strong and were compelling me to think again and again. Personal trip to the USA ! are you nuts ? and have completely lost it ?. Not worrying about those thought just logged into travel website and started to just check the Airfare and as expected they were sky rocketing. Had budgetary constraints so sat down and did the math’s for complete trip and somehow managed to sneak this trip. Called up my sister in the US and broke the good news “ we are coming to USA “ and her joy scaled even the Everest. Like many occasion this time also having “ Coffee with Mom “ did the magic and wonders and I was off to USA.
Now came the big question US visitor Visa. Checked couple of websites and got all the relevant information and carefully applied for US visa at Chennai. Word of caution for all “ Please fill out the form with out most details and with no mistake specially the spellings of you names or the date of birth to avoid unnecessary delays. Next week got all paper work completed from my end and now was waiting for invitation letter from my sister along with her sponsorship letter if asked. Received all the docs well in time from sister and off I was to Chennai to face the Visitor visa.
First thought i should take the convenient Shatabdi express from Bangalore to Chennai, however due to the Visa timing of 2:30 pm for OFC thought it would had been real touch and go and for sure I did not want to reach the consulate late. So decided to leave by Car early in morning and reach Chennai by 11 Pm.
Preparation:
Week prior took the car to KHT Motors Whitfield and asked for inspection of the car before the long drive. KHT Fiat personnel checked the car thoroughly and gave his go ahead which gave me a sigh of relief.
The Day :