There is a saying in hindi "Choti Muh, Badi Baat" means, "small mouth, big dialogues". I would not like to be found arrogant in commenting about a different culture/nation, hence i do not dare to compare Swede way of living with an Indian way of living. I have tried to capture some aspects observed by me during my short stay, I am sure this is just a minute tip of the iceberg.
First thing I observed is panctuality : If meetings start at say 2 PM, it starts indeed at 2 PM. people are in the room couple of minutes early. It is consistent with everyone. There is a saying, if one does not respect time, time does not respect him/her. Swedes seems to live this philosophy.
Second thing i observed was equality, the society as well as workplace seems to be more flat in hierarchy and more orintend towwards individual accountability. Escalations are not expected, people expect the issues to be discussed and resolved without much escaltion.
Equality also reflects in the way decisions are made, Leadership decisions are to a large extent based on consenus as everyone opinon is considered worthwhile. This reflected in the way they hosted a dinner for us, where the location and type of the resturant was discussed formally, we were shown the location on the internet, checked with our food choices e.g. vegitarian etc, closeness to the local hosts to travel back to thier respective homes etc etc.
Swedes come acrosss as quiet or shy. Soft spoken Swedes might appear dis-interested, but in fact they are giving others the opportunity to speak. People tend to listen more than speak. Never a person is interrupted while he is speaking, but people wait for him to finish what he is saying before they ask a question or state their opinion.
There is an old principle of jantelagen, which more or less means you shouldn’t try to appear to be better than others. In practice, this means Swedish people don’t tend to boast or draw attention to themselves — and they don’t cut in line before it’s their turn. This also refelcts in their habit of queuing or waiting in line. We visited a electornic retail shop to buy some power adapter, we found an interesting system there. There are only three attendents on the shop. the customers need to take a paper token ("nummerlapp") with a number on it. The available attendent will press the number and call using the electronic display. one needs to wait till his/her number is called.
I have attched some photogrpahs here which gives between view of the system.
actual token dispensor
Display showing the token number
A small retail shop publishes its own catalogue
As one can see the retail shop is very systematic, they even publish a book giving all the description of the items available in the shop, price, ordering code etc. this book is available free of cost to the customers. all this info is available on the internet website as well.
Moving forward with Swedish culture, Swedes typically try to avoid open conflict. e.g. neighbours may not complain to you directly about the noise, bit they will leave a note instead in the mail box.
Our hosts told us an anecdote, where a swedish company had acquired a business in US which also had a factory in US. the Swedish management used to go for annual review to US.
The first year after listening to a loud and animative presentation by the US team, management simply said, okay, you are doing good, but we want you to improve on these, these and these aspects. US management thought "All izz Well",
The next year the story repeated, swede management said, your progress is okay, but we want you to still improve on this this and this. Third year when US team repeated their loud and animative presentation, the management said since after 3 years yo have not improved, we will close the factory and fire everyone.
The US team was all thinking they are doing great and was not expecting such drastic action from swedish management. they said to US management that you told us we are doing well then why close the operations ?.
The actual fact was the non confrontanist way of swedes was nto well understood by the US team, they did not understand polite message and dis not give a serious thought to it.
Such could be a swedish way of passive aggressiveness.
Swedes are better speakers of english, My personal opinion is they are second to Dutch in their mastery over the english language among europeans.
As per official sweden government website, most of the swedes believe in equality and fairness.
More info about Swedish culture can be found on below government website.
What Swedes are like - SWEDEN.SE