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Originally Posted by nettooran As a family man, I see a lot of benefits in WFH. I am able to spend more than enough time with my kid. ....I have great flexibility in my work timing.
But that said, WFH has been a disaster for me professionally. I became very complacent with my work. I stopped being competitive.
So, would I change jobs or change location to start working from office? I do not know. Sometimes I feel I should do that ... |
I have been working from home since 2014

For one year in 2016, I did join a company where I had to waste time commuting, left that work in order to save my career (different story) but since then, I've decided to not join a company where mandatory office for 5 days is absolutely necessary, unless I run out of options. I've learnt and experienced that one can go to office for five days and still be complacent and less competitive if he is not motivated enough. I can safely say that I am as productive working from home as I would be if working from office.
WFH has its benefits, but there are some real risks as mentioned above. I think I have overcome most of them. I have been following some basic discipline religiously since last 6 years and have worked out well so far. Do note that it took a lot of time to master this, and I did struggle to get it right during the covid years when my kid was a year old and no domestic help was available.
If you are billing your client for 8 hours of work, you HAVE to make yourself available for 8 hours of the day. I don't mix other activities with the 8 hour slots I have for the day. These 8 hours are not fixed, I have to keep them flexible based on my project and how people working from other time-zones are available. For example, Currently, I make myself fully available from 9.30 to 11 AM. Then again from 2.30PM to 9.30PM
So during those 8 work hours:
1. No playing with the kid. Have kept a nanny to look after him now. I've conditioned him to understand that he should not disturb me during office hours and he follows it.
2. No gossip with wife, friends or parents. They get irritated sometimes that I have no time for conversations, but I can't help it. Talking with office colleagues of teams is allowed
3. No parallel whatsapp chatting, the only time I check them is during lunch or dinner or during non working hours. I've deliberately not kept my phone charger in my office room, so for the most part it stays away from my hands, and its always silent. I don't wear smartwatch during work hours so no irritating notifications.
4. No urban-company scheduling of cleaning or fixing anything, everything is kept for weekends.
5. No delivery of non-essential items during office hours. I literally had to fight with my better half on this, as she would order anything and everything online and the door-bell would constantly ring, every 1 or 2 hours, breaking my train of thought or disrupting my work momentum.
6. No going out for chores or to have coffee just because I have light day at work. It turns into a habit, and then becomes a 'normal' behaviour.
7. No eating (this took longest time to adjust, but we simply stopped stashing unhealthy food items at home). Breakfast, snack time , lunch are all excluded from these work hours.
8. Office room door remains closed and no TV or web-series (missed out on lot of live IPL action due to this, but again, can't help

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9. Reading and posting content is limited only to team-bhp.com. Bigger posts like these are kept for after office hours. Reading content does not consume time the way watching videos does. It still can waste a lot of time though, so it boils down to self control.
Apart from these points, I have kept the hybrid model of work active. When I need absolute undivided attention for 8 hours in a stretch, I go to a shared workspace for which my current office happily pays. My previous office used to meet up for one day mandatorily after every 15 days.
A clear and strict self-imposed distinction in work hours and non office hours has made a lot of difference. I have my personal targets automatically set and achieved due do this. For example, If I miss the usual morning run before breakfast and and before 9.30AM, the day is gone for me, I don't use any other slot for my run. So that automatically forces me to wake up and get going. After 9.30PM, I can waste my time guilt-free watching reels on Instagram. Similarly, I have my timings conveyed to all team members (it is mentioned in my team's status bar), people don't ping me during those times nor do I respond immediately to mails or chats during my non work hours.
Lastly, nothing motivates more than strict deadlines and being asked to report about it by another person. I make a point to tell my boss to diligently follow up on my tasks so there is no room for complacency.