Very relevant thread. Some of my (personal) observations are:
1) Invest your money and time wisely
2) From reading this thread, I understand that most of the people recognize this as a genuine issue but nobody is clear of a plausible solution. This is India specific issue. I have seen people aged 60+, working as software developers in Germany, Sweden and other European countries. It is not frowned up there. It is possible because of the small population size in those countries.
In Indian context, one solution that could be to acquire new skills consistently so that when a new technology is hot in the market, there will be a surge in demand and some professionals may be able to make a switch and join the wave.
2) There are not many path breaking new product development happening in India. It is still feature enhancements and product maintenance jobs that are getting moved. So, moving into another product development company can prove to be daunting in 40s but I have noticed that people who are technically good are still able to find jobs in startups and other non-MNC companies.
3) Women have significant advantage in my opinion. Many MNCs are looking to recruit upto 30% of women as employees based on UN's diversity recommendations.This is not an eyewash or lip service (as far as I have seen).
4) Most people want to become Managers at an early stage in their careers in India. Now wonder we see so many people with little emotional intelligence, problem solving skills and even maturity to handle situations. I have come across many people managers who have blatantly announced to the team that nobody should come to them with problems
5) Both technology and business landscapes are changing so rapidly and radically that even the strategists at the top management too are left clueless, getting caught off-guard, making them and their business irrelevant.
See the case of missed buses: HP, Dell, Intel, Nokia, Cisco, Lucent, Qualcomm, Walmart, Citibank. Microsoft somehow escaped the irrelevance. Many of these companies are now moving work to India. Except in few cases, We don't have many strategic managers based in India. India centers are merely executing the orders from the HQ in most of the cases.
6) Usually, higher up one go, the sharper the fall when it happens. On the flip side, with elevated perks, in general, people will elevate their life styles increasing their outgoes. Upgrade to the next new German car, luxury villa, exotic vacation locations etc are always alluring and enticing.
It is not difficult to see that the money inflow is not permanent. Whatever comforts that people are used to today make them feel as if they are entitled for it. Until and unless you are not confident on securing a permanent source of alternate income, don't splurge today's money. Anyway, material things are never going to keep anybody permanently happy. All it gives is pleasure which lasts only until the novelty wanes.
My friend had started given away things which are not absolutely essential in his day to day life. He was surprised to notice the things he had bought unnecessarily and lying around without any use and occupying space. I think it is a common story in many households. I am sure some people will criticize me for writing this. But I still will have to write this piece because it is the excesses committed by our species the homo sapiens is what endangering the existence of the planet Earth itself!!
7) A lot of people don't know what do they want out of their life. They crave for recognition of others from their family and social circles.
Probably, it is not difficult to lead a very descent life. It is difficult only when you want to live as if to impress others.
8) Government also happily milks the IT industry professionals. After collecting income taxes in the highest bracket for so many years, the same Government cares a hoot if and when the person becomes unemployed. I don't think this will change until and unless the IT professionals come together and bargain with Government on this.
It is only the farmers who have their way -- pay zero taxes on any amount of earnings and can also secure loan waivers irrespective of whether they earn or not