I go out for a ride and its christmas in here!!!
No fret Ladies and Gs. I is back and happy (for various OT reasons):
Aqualeo: The Ikon (to Pondicherry, had the left and right folded in with me using the one in the center, whatever its called, if you recall!, in the Mondeo I keep them open as the extra few inches help keep others at bay).
The crash you mentioned was on a Bike, and I've forgotten how many (all my fault..). This thread however is about "Bad Drivers", and you know I have never had one in the car. Hence mentioning the car bit. I'll be happy to spill the bike follies and gain an even bigger fan following (such as the one you are about to see below) in the motorcycles section.
Am glad the post has stirred so much controversy, here are your respective replies:
Amitoj: LOL here too, and a big thank you to the other good drivers who have left me and my cars accident free, hope the same "luck" rubs off to everyone whether they use mirrors or not. Bald wheels - Yes, that means I dont respect my many year old cars scratch free, shining, usually 3kmpl MORE than manufacturer claimed vehicles. Smoking while driving, extremely casual approach! Heck that's how I manage to NOT have an accident living in 3 different cities! Tailgating sign of a bad driver? I couldnt agree more, read my post clearly, I never said anything about tailgating, I spoke about following closely. Marginal difference.
Anjan: Yes, very benevolent god, and after 30 years if and when we're still around, I'll be thanking the same god for having NOT had me in a car accident, just the way 3 generations before me never did. It has nothing to do with the driver. All supernatural.
Eddy: Thank you! I never pray for it myself, in fact in my prayers I usually wish my last breath is on 2 wheels, which could be why the 4 wheels have the protected force field!!
Anil: Totally agree with you, it is uncomfortable, and for the past year, I have started (upon the insistence of the family) to drive with my mirrors open, whether I use it or not is secondary.
Amit: I apologise my friend, nothing I said was out of over confidence and am not sure how that has been construed, I was only stating facts to correct few generalisations, you are free to drop into my place for a conversation with self and the family to see if there is any truth to the matter. In fact, the first thing I was taught is to know that I am NOT good, and there is always room for improvement.
Arkin : I dont care about my life, true, I dont care about others lives, well, I dont see why I need to explain it to you, but I come from a family of freedom fighters, social workers and doctors and was brought up well, I urge you to refrain from such baseless accusations. I dont need to give myself a character certificate, my actions over the course of my life have served the purpose. By the way, I didnt LEAVE my car tyres bald, they GOT bald, and were changed once exhausted. Identifying deserving idiots: I go by instinct. About proving am not a good driver IYHO: I never said I was, in fact, my post clearly states that, and I quote:
"Am not special, if am doing it, am sure there are others somewhere who are doing it with success too, hence wanted to point it out"
About the helmet and life bit, already addressed above. I will be glad if am considered exactly the opposite. I've always been and prefer it that way.
I was half expecting objective criticism but was pleasantly surprised to come across nothing of any technical value (which is why I joined here to begin with).
Let me just ask 2 questions not just to the ones who have been kind enough to express their "feelings" to my "facts":
1. Why is it so hard to digest the fact that a person CAN have instincts which do not necessitate the need of a RVM, or that a person CAN have control beyond the use of a bald tyre, or that a person CAN have the skill to drive one handed etc etc etc....because as I said, and I repeat (before someone calls be over confident or says I have no value for life -that's a good one-, that I am NOT special, I've seen others in my family do it, I've seen others in my circle do it, hence, it can be done. What is so hard to believe?
2. Is it because you HAVE had accidents? Is it because you do NOT have instincts and have found using technology and "recommended" driving do's to aid you? Am almost apologetic that I've needed neither. As a couple of the guys above said, diving intervention has helped (runs in the family, 30 years is a long time).
By the way, just to repeat myself in a different way in the hope that at least SOMEONE understands, even having a 0 accident record is no big deal, I know some really poor drivers who have maintained that even while frying their clutches every 10k because they dont even know to shift.
Jokes apart, on a serious note, listen guys, I am not sure how my post has been construed to mean the things which were said (some of which rather dents the image one had of Tbhp before joining) however, I would like to assure you that I am as serious about my riding/driving skills as yourselves, maybe more, maybe less, its hard to quantify passion, and I have NEVER endangered the safety of anyone on the road on 4 wheels. I dont need to produce witnesses, but as I stated above, my house doors are open for anyone wanting a chinwag over a pint discussing driving, driving safe, driving fast. Maybe THAT would clear the airs (not because I care what people here think of me, I couldnt care less for brickbats or adulations, gone past that stage in life, but because I would genuinely want to understand WHY it is so difficult to digest).
A question to the Mods: It says in my post: Foul language in any form not allowed etc, what foul language did I use? (or is adding *** also considered a form of foul language?) I am unaware, hence asking

If yes, I think you ought to have the *** option because the other members might misunderstand in what context the starred foul language was used.
Just a thought - before anyone starts dissing again, there's something I follow, and that's called "How". So, if someone were to tell me something which sounds far fetched, ludicrous, "life threatening" etc etc, I usually ask the other person "How", giving them the window of opportunity to explain and perhaps LEARN something from it. For even if I am doing everything wrong, there must be SOME method to the madness, right?