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Originally Posted by am1m I really enjoyed Bangalore in my teens and 20s, it's when I entered my 30s and the daily routine kicked in that I began to consider the other aspects like the pollution, commute, etc and no longer consider it an ideal place to live. A lot of younger teammates I get to interact with daily too absolutely love life here. |
Most of us here should be new-entrants to the city who came in during late 1990s to mid 2000s (correct me if I am wrong here). And at that time Bengaluru was still a "retirees' paradise". And to be frank in those days commute etc. was not a problem (even for a person who was not very young). The city was not big as it is today, there were lesser people and lesser vehicles to navigate through. And guess people also did not have much money to throw around.
Now spending 15-20 years we have seen how the city landscape changed and we are also growing older. Priorities change, and then we realise that many of the "simple things" which we did earlier were not simple any more. But for a young man/woman who have landed in Bangalore recently; for them this is still a new world and new city. Especially if they are here with their first job etc. Most of them would be bachelors/spinsters and they have good avenues to enjoy life. They are also willing to stay in PGs which are as good as the cellular prison Andamans, but if that helps them to save money to spend on some more luxuries, who am I to complain

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From conversations with several female colleagues who grew up in small towns and have moved to Bangalore for work, I understand that life back home was not exactly ideal and they much prefer the freedom and opportunities that a city like Bangalore offers them. From my interactions with professionals over nearly 20 years, I find that it's usually the men who dream of 'going back home to their village someday', none of the women colleagues from smaller towns want to return.
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Being a typical man
who dream of 'going back home to their village someday' I agree with you 100%. My sample size would be mainly people in Kerala, but you are right. Many women just do not wish to go back to their home towns, and are happy to make just occassional visits. I guess it is the feeling that society is "conservative" which makes them feel this way. Bangalore always had an image of being less conservative, but that is also not 100% true.
Christ students accuse woman cop of moral policing; reports today's Deccan Herald. And the using catapult and grains on women wearing "skimpy clothes", I guess is a new phenomenon here.
And to be frank even me too have now two thoughts on going back to the village/small town from where I come from. I guess many of us men are
nostalgic about our home towns and we wish to get back there. But there is a catch, our own small home towns have now become small sized cities. At least in the town from where I come from (now marked as a city), traffic jams are daily occurence. Apartments have replaced the old independent houses. Parking woes, and even driving in the central part of the town is a night mare. And the whole are has changed. The old
tea-shops, way side eateries; have all been replaced with the same Pizza Hut, Dominos, Swiggy stuff which we see in Bangalore. The new generation are also as tech savvy and wants to
chill out. The only saving grace for the
nostalgic people could be meeting up with some of our old friends, who some how have managed to stay in the same place and make a living. But for them too, their priorities would have changed.
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Originally Posted by gtonsing Nothing about road signs, signage, traffic rules, silent zones, lane discipline, speeding or anything that we are talking about here. So, no wonder we see drivers who are driving the way they do |
Actually it is there in the syllabus. 25 years back when I got my first license, one part of the test was a kind of viva-voce with the MVI. He asked me about the mandatory, cautionary signals and also about some popular sections of MV Act like Sec.3 etc. And we also had to show the "overtake me" hand sign (right hand fully extended and then make an arc from the back to the front).