Hello Everyone,
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We have recently moved to Bangalore in Aug 2019, I heard a lot of good things about Bengaluru and its people. We moved from Pune and Weather treated us with an awe & we loved the environment.
One thing we didn't like about Bengaluru was rampant wrong side driving on the Neelamangala to Peenya flyover (both sides) and hated it to the core (we stay near the highway). I mean who gets a truck on the wrong side at speeds of 50-60 kmph
. We accepted it thinking OK maybe thats the law here.
However things went crazy yesterday when on the Peenya flyover a RITZ taxi driver coming in from the LHS was trying to push me and get a space to overtake (dude I am in the RHS lane and moving at 60-70 where will I go?) would've given him side once I could, however this guy rammed brute on LHS passenger side. I tried slowing down on LHS he over took and stopped in front. Three people came out reeking of alcohol (5 PM in the evening) and started abusing me in Kannada and some hindi. I am a Maharashtrian and speak Marathi, English and Hindi fluently and have a very vast vocab of Hindi abuses. I accept! I dint hold back as it was not my fault and they were evidently trying to extort money. During this argument the driver hit me and that was it I lost my cool and it was all about rage from there.
My wife came in to get me out of the scuffle (3 to 1) however those guys hit my wife. All hell was loose and I gave them a taste of their own medicine however to amusement the locals speaking kannada started hitting me instead of stopping a fight, people started hitting me from here and there and that’s where I saw the spirit of Bengaluru (its down in the drain) you see a man over powered with a lady trying to save him and you cowards hit start hitting them since they are not able to communicate in a language understandable to you? But anyways me and wife we maybe a regular office going people but we are trained in our school life to handle such situations.
Thankfully a Marathi speaking guy came in once he saw regn No. of my vehicle and helped my wife to get into car and directed me as well to remain seated, meanwhile there was a huge pileup on the flyover. I wanted to go to the nearest police station but those guys blocked the way and were not letting us. My wife called up 100 and the fun started then the control room lady doesn't understand Hindi or English which is totally understandable, we somehow gave them our location and they informed that the PCR is on its way. In the meanwhile a Decent Bengaluru Citizen who was a serving BSF personnel came along and understood the situation. He was speaking Kannada and English to my relief and said the other guy is saying that you are drunk and rammed the car. I gave him a quick breath test and said my car is rammed from behind and showed him injury to my wife as well. He quickly understood what happened and escorted us out of the flyover.
We stopped at a junction and called up the PCR again they were on the way and then came this traffic constable on the call of the Cab guy and started questioning me if I am drunk and asking me for my Driving license I told him you can see the license but I have called PCR and they are on the way. I told him that guys hit my wife as well and in the scuffle they were passing weird remarks as well. Instead of paying heed to my pleads he ask me why did I hit the guy, I said it was self-defense and that’s my right to even kill a person if they are trying to assault me. He said this doesn’t looks like a self-defense when one guy is black and blue and you are with bruises. (I said quietly in my mind that it was not even close to what I could've done).
The BSF guys helped us out in this situation and explained to the PCR and the traffic cops that who was at fault and finally they said you can say sorry to each other and move on or can go to the PS and file a complaint, me and my wife were not ready to let them go but the situation is we don’t speak the language and we didn’t wanted the hassle, if it would have been a Hindi speaking place I wouldn’t have budged but yes that’s how it is. He said sorry I said fine and moved on.
But thats not the point, the point is I was amazed at the apathy shown towards a fellow citizen just because he was not able to clearly communicate with the cops and had non KA registered vehicle. The BSF guy told me that this happens and they try to extort in this way. The traffic cop came before the PCR on the call of the Cab guys which clearly paints the picture to the nexus.
We hated the traffic of this place and now we hate the people as well and not because we got into fight with three of them because the others who were passerby they hit us just because we couldn’t speak the language.
I am from MP and have been to Himachal, UP, Haryana, MP, Rajashthan, Goa in my car and have never seen such hostile behavior that too by a crowd. It’s not about road rage it’s about the People's attitude towards other people. On the brighter side the BSF guys helped us out even though they were travelling with family and spent next 30-40 mins with us to safeguard us says a lot about the actual people here.
I have seen Pune police treating people who dont speak Marathi equally and if proven not wrong helping them as well. Oh Man! This was a very bad experience for me and my wife and we have been scarred for life with this place. We will complete our stint here and move back as soon as we can.
In the end I would like to say I dont know where we are headed as a society but the road ahead seems dark.
I hope this phase gets over quickly and I am back to my place in Pune.
PS: I understand Fellow Bangalore BHPians here may not like my post and this is not to offend anyone or a culture but it’s a personal opinion of me and what happened with me and would respect your opinion as well.
Regards
Shivraj S Ghorpade